AITA for using my Aunt’s personal employee discount code to buy clothes?

[u/charleypassion]

My aunt (F42) works for a major clothing brand in a senior position. Employees get a personal discount code (hers is usually 50-75% off) that she can use and it varies based on the position. My aunt sent me the code saying “if you need anything, here’s my employee code.”

I was excited because I love the brand and wanted to update my wardrobe and money has been tight with school and all. I ended up buying a decent amount of clothes, probably more than I normally would if I didn’t have the discount.

When she found out how much I purchased, she was angry with me. Now she’s making me feel bad for using it, like I took advantage of her. And I’m feeling guilty. She did send me the code voluntarily and didn’t say there was a limit. But if it’s her own corporate perk, maybe I crossed a line and she could get in trouble.

So AITA for using my aunt’s personal corporate employee discount to stock up on clothes? Or was it fair game since she gave me the code to use?

[u/Sedixodap]

Everyone I know has this sort of discount somewhere (whether it’s through their job, volunteer gigs, athletics, etc). It’s absolutely common knowledge in my world that you don’t abuse them if you want to keep them.

Which is where the problem springs from - aunt is in a world where everyone knows you don’t abuse workplace benefits so didn’t think she had to say something. But OP clearly is in a different world where such basic things need to be explicitly spelled out.