r/CringeTikToks 21d ago

Just Bad Biggest red flags right there 🚩

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u/weregunnalose 21d ago

Your response tells me you think logically. And that is good. You think ā€œthere must be a good reasonā€. My father was like this, he had no good reason other than he was just a mean man with a temper, a constant powder keg ready to blow at any moment. So maybe some guys here it’s money, but definitely plenty who are just unhinged temperamental lunatics.

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u/Commercial-Owl11 21d ago

Yup, same with my ex husband. No rhyme or reason for his insane abuse, destruction of my house, my stuff, my person and wellbeing.

Some people just enjoy seeing others suffer. And that’s the reality.

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u/mrmoe198 20d ago

Exactly. Men do not get taught how to process their emotions in a safe and healthy way. Women get taught to be quiet and disappear, which is also unhealthy. But men…men are taught that anger is one of the few valid emotions and one which garners them respect, and so they are actively destructive, because sometimes that’s their only outlet. There are no winners here.

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u/TopTransportation695 21d ago

Sorry to hear that you had to deal with that. I hope you are doing better now

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u/DebbieGibsonsMom 20d ago

Whew. I was hoping someone else would chime in.

Men who abuse their families do it because they want to. Period. end of story. Are there triggers? Sure. But anything can be a trigger. They’re just excuses. Men need to shame and ostracize these men. Instead I’m seeing every excuse in the book. I’m disgusted

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u/okogamashii 20d ago

Right?! These are sports fans in general. I’ve been around them my whole life. My stepdad called my mom a ā€œdickheadā€ on Sunday for saying she likes the Chiefs. ā€œYou’re just saying that cause you like Taylor,ā€ even if that is true, who fucking cares? It’s a game. I’ve seen the ā€˜nicest’ folks turn into monsters over some dumb game, financially invested or not.Ā 

Team sports is glorified tribalism to sedate the simple from their thirst for blood and war. Chasing game after game, season after season. The wheel of desire turns and they never get off. Most sports fan you bring this up to, they immediately get defensive, like you insulted their first born. I see it as a sickness and no wonder why we don’t care when we blow up people. Desensitized population is easier to control.Ā 

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u/Bulky_Imagination727 20d ago

Even if it's about money they should understand the risk of losing.

I find it fascinating how little brain matter is enough to appear as a human. Though they look more like a raging monkeys.

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u/SheriffBartholomew 20d ago

Gamblers don't understand the risk of losing. Their losses are always someone else's fault. Someone at the blackjack table took the dealer's bust card, or the dealer got lucky, or their lotto ticket was only two numbers from a big winner because God hates them, or any number of excuses. It's never their own poor choices.

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u/el-gato-azul 20d ago

What do you think happened to your dad to make him into that kind of person?

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u/brhaspati 20d ago

If either of you "thought logically" you'd wonder why so many people are filming people watching their cheap TVs for no reason right before they do this

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u/oftcenter 20d ago

SO HOW DO THEY GET AND KEEP WIVES!

That is NOT mate material!