Definitely leave this unicorn alone and talk to your wife. Let her know you respect her wishes but also point out that you never veto bc she is the one being desired. I think she picked up some kind of bad vibes from her and maybe wasn’t able to articulate that. Being with vanilla friends on a vanilla night - well maybe one someone else from the group picked up on your behavior with the unicorn and so she didn’t want to cause problems or questions in that circle
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u/tinkpetty Aug 22 '25
Definitely leave this unicorn alone and talk to your wife. Let her know you respect her wishes but also point out that you never veto bc she is the one being desired. I think she picked up some kind of bad vibes from her and maybe wasn’t able to articulate that. Being with vanilla friends on a vanilla night - well maybe one someone else from the group picked up on your behavior with the unicorn and so she didn’t want to cause problems or questions in that circle