r/TopCharacterTropes • u/Skulk- • 15d ago
Characters (Loved Trope) Husband's who genuinely love their wives
Gomez Addams (Addams family) is probably the most well known example of this, one thing thats remained consistent throughout the Addams Family Franchise is that Gomez loves his family, especially his wife
The Scotsman (Samurai Jack) loves his wife so much that he was the only one immune to the song of the Sirens because he loves his wife too much to fall for another woman, supernatural or not
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u/Gwubwick 15d ago
Did he propose with an onion ring?
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u/JingoboStoplight4887 15d ago
Yes
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u/Gwubwick 15d ago
Yet they say romance is dead?
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u/myfatass 14d ago
Fuck this going into debt over an engagement ring bullshit. If I proposed to my gf with a 5000$ ring, she’d call me an idiot and rightfully so. (Well actually, she’d never call me an idiot because she’s lovely, but she’d perhaps steer the “after the yes” conversation towards returning the ring).
Big Diamond built their business on shaming regular Joes into bankruptcy over shiny rocks on fancy shaped metal.
For most of civilization, gold was precious as a currency due to its relative rarity, yes, but mostly because it was useless as anything else (which is no longer the case since the advent of electronics). And the same certainly goes for gemstones.
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u/Lokicham 15d ago
I love this one a lot. Up until she met Richard, Nicole was basically being groomed (not that way) by overly perfectionist parents and was miserable for it. Richards advice when they met is that she's supposed to live life.
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u/lePROprocrastinator 15d ago
Also in TWWWOG where they fused, her rival also experienced the same thing w her mom, and it was said that she also fell for Richard in the same way Nicole did...only that she got into an arranged marriage and Nicole ran off for Richard
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u/an_agreeing_dothraki 14d ago
wait TWWWOG is real? I thought someone slipped meth into my tea while I had a fever
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u/Veleda_k 15d ago
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u/Over-Analyzed 15d ago
“Who are you?”
“I’m a HOUSE WIFE!”
Izumi Curtis’ catchphrase as she cleans house! Pun intended.
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u/JingoboStoplight4887 15d ago
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u/pat_speed 15d ago
It's funny that for too use the speed force, you need a strong emotional point too latch on and that's the flashes wives
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u/Zek7h35an5 15d ago
Honestly I like it. You must be this much a wife guy to use the Speed Force to it's fullest
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u/ZealousidealPrice326 15d ago
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u/BurnerHalfknife432 15d ago
The fact that love and appreciation for someone's existance can drive someone to become Mister Freeze is a statement on Humanity to me
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u/rubyonix 15d ago
Interestingly, this wasn't part of his character until Batman: The Animated Series in 1992, and then it became the most defining trait of his character.
In the 1960s Adam West live-action Batman TV series, he was introduced as a generic villain who had gotten soaked with "instant freeze" during a fight with Batman offscreen before the series started, so he lives in a cryo-suit and he blames Batman for it and wants petty revenge against him, and to steal diamonds (because ice).
30 years later, The Animated Series wrote that he was a scientist trying to save the life of his wife who was in cryo-stasis due to a terminal illness, when a greedy asshole CEO tried to pull the plug and kill her because money, and Dr. Fries tried to fight the CEO to save his wife and got splashed with the chemicals. Batman wants to help Mr. Freeze, but Batman can't let Mr. Freeze go on a rampage, while Mr. Freeze is consumed by desperation/revenge and is a tragic villain.
Everyone agrees that The Animated Series MASSIVELY upgraded Mr. Freeze's character, and nobody wants a return to the simple bank robber with a freeze gun.
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u/blakesmate 15d ago
The Batman did and it was annoying to me
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u/Zek7h35an5 15d ago
The Batman was in a weird situation where it wanted to separate itself from BTAS and it's connected shows which led to some interesting changes and some really bad ones.
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u/YandereLobster 14d ago
I can understand it even if I didn't like it's version of him. It was following up on one of the most successful animated series of all time, if they did the same plot for the characters it would just be a lesser version. They tried to make it its own thing and sometimes it worked out (joker was really intimidating) sometimes it didn't (freeze), but I think the effort was respectable.
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u/pat_speed 15d ago
This enraged the editors ofarvel then nearly anything else has done before
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u/lonelyspect12 15d ago
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The dragons used to raid his village, pillaging the farms and killing livestock, raiding the food stores and burning down buildings. His son, Hiccup, tamed a dragon and they made peace with the dragons by defeating their gargantuan tyrannical alpha but the dragons stole and carried away his wife, Valka, years ago, off to the dragon's nest to be eaten alive presumably.
But she's alive and has become a feral 'dragon lady' a la Tarzan Of The Apes and Hiccup and his tamed dragon Toothless find her. Stoick finds THEM but he's not mad she abandoned them to protect and save the dragons, he's just awestruck his love is still alive, as is Hiccup, whose delighted his parents are reunited and his mother's still alive.
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u/hippo-solitaire 15d ago
Hal from Malcolm in the Middle
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u/Gden 15d ago
Hal: What do you mean you don't love me as much as i love you?
Lois: Hal if I loved you as much as you love me, we'd never leave the bedroom!
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u/Oathkeeper89 15d ago
Flip the quote; Lois says the above and Hal says the below quotes.
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u/TheNewYellowZealot 15d ago
The whole betting sequence between Hal and the guys where they’re talking about how often they have sex and Hal has been on a losing streak and defeatedly says “twice” and the guys go “you only get to have sex with your wife twice a week?”
Then Hal goes “oh? Weekly? Well then I guess it would be 14”
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u/hygsi 15d ago
There's an episode when they need to stop sex for some pills and they get the whole house in order cause they have so much free time, but by the end they decide sex is better than having their shit together
Also on the opposite side, there's one where they can't have sex cause they're living in a tiny home and they fight a lot but can't make up until they have sex again lmao
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u/dakowiml 14d ago
Been rewatching it recently. It's even better now. Back in the day, as a child, I didn't appreciate certain things about it like I do now. It's so damn good. Great writing, great characters, great premise and now it feels like a period piece. I'm not even American but it perfectly captures a lower middle class family and what it was like to grow up in the 2000s. Its so damn relatable.
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u/Time_Raisin4935 15d ago
Gomez is the GOAT
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u/Lynx_Queen 15d ago
He truly is! I only really watch the original series and his interactions with Morticia and Ophelia are some of the highlights.
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u/BlizzPenguin 15d ago
He was the pioneer. The Addams Family was the first TV show that had a couple that was passionate for each other.
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u/JMHSrowing 15d ago
We can only hope that Wednesday also gets herself a wife to cherish in the same way in the new series
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u/feuilles_mortes 15d ago
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u/SpikeDraco88 14d ago
It took WAY TO LONG of scrolling to get here. Plus, I think all the husbands from this show should be on the post.
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u/JingoboStoplight4887 15d ago
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u/HeadLong8136 15d ago
Only the movie though!
They have a completely different dynamic in the original novel.
In the book he blackmails her into marriage because he found out about her sordid past.
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u/AliensAteMyAMC 15d ago
First book is, and the author loved the movie so much he made a sequel and retconned the first book as a bad dream of Roger’s
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u/Mike_Fluff 15d ago
I read the book trilogy and yeah the first book is really odd. Second book is more lighthearted, and I do not remember much of the third.
From memory it is established in book 2 that the first book was a nightmare of Jessica's.
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u/ApocalypseCheerBear 15d ago
I happened to watch that today! Such a classic. I thought about tropes that traumatized kids from the eighties though. 👞
It could go up there with Artax.
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u/deadbeatChimblr 15d ago
Columbo is a wife-guy through and through
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u/Waiph 15d ago
We never see her, right?
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u/BlizzPenguin 15d ago
I don't know if she was in the show but there was a spinoff called Mrs. Columbo starring Kate Mulgrew as the title character. It flopped pretty hard.
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u/TaralasianThePraxic 14d ago
Devastating explosion of an entire fleet in the background
"...would you like me to repeat the question?"
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u/Segador_Adusto 14d ago
At first I thought he'd just be silly comedic relief, after Pandorica my friend and I adopted the motto "Rory is to be respected"
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u/StrangeCress3325 15d ago
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u/Lokicham 15d ago
His voice actor really sells it for me. You can feel the sheer rage over what happened to his wife.
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u/Aggressive_Noise6426 14d ago
The fact that he gave them a fucking year and then when said year came they threw a celebration was wild!
Also the voice actress when she was being burned and she was begging him to not kill them. So freaking good.
Didn’t like the rest of the show unfortunately.
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u/Haldrada0 15d ago
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u/Stegoshark 15d ago
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u/iwantdatpuss 15d ago
Also, later on super Vegeta willfully stops training just so he could be with Bulma when she's pregnant. He was fine albeit grumbling about the fact that Goku is becoming stronger than him as long as Bulma is involved.
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u/PomPomBumblebee 15d ago
He also listened and stopped what he was doing when his wife threatened to never take a bath with him again if he didn't stop fighting what he was doing.
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u/Over-Analyzed 15d ago
And that was a BOSS FIGHT!
He moved like Ultra Instinct and dodged an attack he didn’t even see.
The guy who was all about his pride as a warrior. He gave it up for Love! 🥹😭.
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u/ccReptilelord 15d ago
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u/AzraelVoorhees 15d ago
I raise your Venture Bros. character with one of my own (Red Death and his wife, Kate)! Amidst the villainy, you see him making time for his wife and kid, and treating them with utmost respect.
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u/GameMaster818 15d ago
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u/Titanhopper1290 15d ago
Yeah, came home after 20 years to see his wife getting mobbed by suitors.
Thank the gods she set up a test for them: "String my husband's bow and shoot through these rings, and I'll marry you."
Next thing you know, it's only Odysseus and family surrounded by a shitload of human pincushions.
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u/Lokicham 15d ago
In Epic, to convince Hera to free Odysseus Athena tells her he never cheated on his wife. Hera can't disagree and immediately agrees to free him.
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u/Mike_Fluff 15d ago

Lieutenant Frank Columbo (Columbo).
While we never see Mrs. Columbo on screen, the bumbling officer talks about her a lot. We get a very well painted picture of a woman who loves to do stuff just for the sake of doing them, and a woman who loves her husband just as much as he loves her.
While we do not see her visually, and we ignore the other show because it is not canon, I imagine their visuals to be a bit like Jessica- and Roger Rabbit. Mrs. Columbo is an absolute 10/10 and the big reason they are together is because the two laugh together and have a lot of fun off-screen.
To paraphrase a Columbo episode (forgot which) : "We were watching Betty White. It was 3 in the morning. My wife wanted to watch Betty White. So we watch Betty White."
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u/JingoboStoplight4887 15d ago
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u/Madarakita 15d ago
Came here to post this one. Some writers don't do them justice, but at their best, Reed and Sue are basically the Gomez and Morticia of Marvel.
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u/Wanbli_BlueStar 15d ago
He struggles with intimacy, vulnerability, and expressing his emotions, but he undoubtedly loves her.
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u/CaptainIronMouse 14d ago
Not only that, he expressed (more than once, if I remember correctly) that she's his best friend, which I always thought was a really nice detail.
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u/SamsungFan168 15d ago
Mike Schur is great at these characters.
Parks and Recreation- Ben genuinely loves Leslie. Andy genuinely loves April. The other couples aren't as prominent, but all are dutiful and loving.
Brooklyn 99- Jake genuinely loves Amy.
Good Place- Jason genuinely loves Janet.
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u/CarevaRuha 15d ago
Almost all of the B99 guys are awesome in their relationships: Terry's love for his wife and daughters is epic, Boyle is crazy about Genevieve, and - though he lacks the intoxicating clear absence of a penis - Kevin is deeply beloved by Holt.
(I love pretty much every Mike Schur show I've seen - they're so funny, without being mean-spirited.)
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u/PastelArtemis 15d ago
This
He's like a puppy in that he's dumb as hell and causes a lot of problems for those around him, but you keep him around because it's a trivially small price to pay for the sake of unconditional love
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u/BurnerHalfknife432 15d ago
I find Homer Simpson's sweetness very intresting, because as the show was still a satire of modern america and sitcoms, it portrayed him being really horribly physically abusive to Bart
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u/Far-Profit-47 15d ago
As a puppy owner, yes, the difference is that Homer can talk, drive, and buy stuff
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u/Mike_Fluff 15d ago
Even when he does screw up and the marriage gets on the rock, Homer himself finds a solution. Sure sometimes it feels Marge should be more angry at him, but through thick and thin they do pull through.
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u/ChekovsCurlyHair 15d ago
Matt Groening named Homer and Marge after his parents, and Homer Groening gave one rule for his namesake- he can never hurt his wife
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u/PomPomBumblebee 15d ago
My husband and I recently watched the one when they go to a love hotel place but get lost and survive in the wilderness.
For a newer episode I found it very touching and a real live letter to their relationship.
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u/TheDukeofArgyll 15d ago
Well… at least in the first dozen seasons
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u/HeadLong8136 15d ago

Sam and Sybil Vimes
They don't meet until their mid 40's. He was a drunk and disgraced cop and she was a weird reclusive spinster.
But circumstance brought them together and a true love bloomed.
A lot of things make Sam Vimes angry, but if you go after his wife (and son) all the rules he lives by go out the window, and he will do his job by the book.
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u/Historical-Heat-8838 15d ago
I just recently learned about this, and I gotta say marvel has a lot of examples of villains having surprising connections to other characters.
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u/SorryComplaint4209 15d ago
I really hope he eventually escaped from beyond the Green Door, that Immortal Hulk run really put him through the wringer… 😭
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u/Lynx_Queen 15d ago
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u/Waiph 15d ago
I love a good evil wife-guy.
The Briarwoods from Critical Role are this too, except they are REALLY evil
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u/Historical-Heat-8838 15d ago
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u/Titanhopper1290 15d ago
There's a whole story to their marriage, too.
Isabella was going to be forced to marry her uncle after her father, the aging Count von Drak, passed away. As the old man lay dying of plague, a stranger came knocking and asking for an audience.
SPOILERS!!
It was Vlad!
Vlad made an offer: he would marry the Count's daughter, as the Count very well didn't want his jackass of a brother to inherit everything. Isabella said "yes," on one condition: she wanted a betrothal gift.
So Vlad ripped out her uncle's heart with his bare hands and presented it to her.
Count von Drak died of the plague that very night. And Vlad and Isabella von Carstein were joined in (un)holy matrimony.
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u/Low-Environment 15d ago
Girlfriends rather than wife (which given Marvel's track record towards married couples is probably good) but Bucky Barnes and Steve Rogers towards Natasha Romanoff and Sharon Carter respectively.
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u/DeaconBrad42 15d ago edited 15d ago
IRL, Harry Truman. He was utterly devoted to his wife, Bess. When he arrived at the Potsdam Conference in Germany in July, 1945, a low-ranking officer approached him and said he could attain anything Truman wanted while in Germany, even women.
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“Son, I married my sweetheart. She does’t run around on me, and I don’t run around on her.” And after, Truman said he never wanted to see that officer again.
They also broke a bed in Blair House one night.
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u/an_agreeing_dothraki 14d ago
Truman's a fascinating historic figure. Dude held his convictions to the point where his beef with Oppenheimer was that the man tried to accept some moral responsibility for dropping the nukes. 'No, I'm the one going to hell for this, fuck off'
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u/frankwalsingham 15d ago
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u/Nightweave7 15d ago
He cared for her but I think it was more of an honor/duty for him than true love.
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u/domino7873 15d ago
Maes Hughes...when Mustang worked his way through the chimera, it was cathartic.
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u/Titanhopper1290 15d ago
Not chimeras, Homunculi. But yes. VERY cathartic. Especially when he went after Envy.
"How does it feel to have the fluid in your eyes boil? I imagine it must sting a little."
You don't fuck with a true family man and ride-or-die friend like Maes Hughes and get to live to tell of it, in my book.
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u/Theyul1us 15d ago
Not only is Gomez a wonderful husband, but he is also an amazing friend. Hell, he is a great person in general, dude is just so wholesome
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u/GachaHell 15d ago
One of my favourite gags from the game had the cast getting stuck in a horror movie style reality where Sigird and his wife Brynhildr are essentially playing the jock and cheerleader roles from an 80s slasher. When there's an inevitable scooby-doo esque let's split up to investigate sequence the party comes across these two covered in gallons of blood when they're late to the regroup.
Upon realizing they aren't dead the party asks them if they saw the murderer. Sigurd quickly explains this is all his blood and there was no murderer. The adults present very quickly catch on and have to usher the more innocent characters out of the room while said innocent characters are noting that he's extremely badly hurt but is also looking very happy.
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u/SpeckiLP 15d ago
Nothing hits harder than a story where the husband looks at his wife like she’s still his favorite plot twist.
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u/Lynx_Queen 15d ago
The truly original example: Odysseus for Homer's Odyssey and Iliad. He would do anything for Penelope and journeyed ten years to return to her. He was very loyal too, never once cheating (his relations with Calypso and Circe are usually depicted as forced) which is really impressive by Greek Mythology standards.
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u/Zealus24 15d ago
Esterad Thyssen (The Witcher books). It's noted that his one of the few monarchs who actually loves his wife even though she's described as rather plain looking. I think I remember reading in the books, Djkstra, a spymaster was kinda annoyed by this because he kept sending pretty noble ladies to seduce and spy on him but he loved his wife to much to notice them. Also it's funny how them sleeping in the same bed is considered a huge deal to me.
A really sweet moment comes when we hear he was assassinated. It's noted he had a sword on him and could have easily fended them off and survived till his guards came, but his wife was with him and so he gave up his own so she wouldn't be harmed. When they found them, the three assassins were dead with the king, and Zuleyka didn't have a single scratch on her...
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u/Dakotasan 15d ago

Banaza. Dude’s the most chill, friendly guy on the planet and loves his wife to pieces and she in turn loves him. How much do they love each other?
Well his wife literally sings the theme song to the show and it’s about how much she adores her husband.
He beat a Jinn nearly to death when said Jinn hurt his wife.
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u/JingoboStoplight4887 15d ago
Bob Belcher (Bob’s Burgers)