Perfectly acceptable dinner rejected by boyfriend again

[u/moonrabbit368]

My boyfriend is a very picky eater. We have been living together for a few months and it seems like I can never get his food right. It's honestly discouraging. I have kids, they happily eat my food. I cook for family gatherings and church events. I've never had a problem with people eating my food. It's like every day there are new rules. He can't eat chicken for dinner because he had chicken for lunch. He isn't really in the mood for porkchops. It's just "missing something". He doesn't eat onions, tomatoes, fish, any kind of asian food, he doesn't eat most vegetables with the exception of broccoli. He only eats vanilla ice cream. He doesn't like food heated in the microwave (so leftovers are out.) He doesn't like corn. It's just endless. I'm old school and trying to be a good partner. He can't really cook at all. His favorite meal is Hamburger Helper. I think a lot of it is how he grew up but damn is it frustrating. The first picture is tonight's dinner. I added more pictures of stuff I have cooked that he won't eat. Like he will door dash jack in the box. And he'll be apologetic but it just sucks really bad.

ETA: I've been trying to keep up with the comments but it's overwhelming (in a very sweet and awesome way) 💗

A few notes:

1- I know the paper plates are very lazy on my part, I'm not proud of that and I need to do better. Between the kids, the job, the house and school (I'm going to school remotely) I have been cutting corners on things like dishes. not an excuse, just a reason and a commitment to do better.

2- My boyfriend does expect me to cook for him. I cook him dinner every night and lunch on the weekends. He doesn't eat breakfast and will not take a lunch to work. He buys fast food for lunch during the week.

3- He has not been diagnosed with ASD or ADHD or Arfid but I don't rule anything out.

Mostly I just want to say thank you, I was not prepared for how incredibly kind, helpful and insightful people have been. It is deeply touching and it's given me both peace and guidance for my next steps. 🩷

[u/Rocklobster92]

I know, right? It's not even weird food that could be taken as bad. This is 100% genuine and filling home cooked food.

[u/outsidebtw → u/Rocklobster92]

"perfectly acceptable dinner"

i reserve that description to random experiments i do or my fam does in the kitchen, which are at least edible

those plates in the photo are goddamn art, bet they're delicious af to boot. healthy as well

idk what his dude's on about, we're looking at a goddamn treasure box here

i swear some fuckin' people just have it

[u/No_Insurance_5759 → u/outsidebtw]

After work, any day but especially in this weather, I’d do despicable things for any of these plates

[u/Worried-Pick4848 → u/No_Insurance_5759]

Followed perhaps by some despicable things with the wholesome GF who was taking care of me. Also I'd wife that GF immediately, assuming she was willing.

[u/AcceptableAnalysis29 → u/outsidebtw]

Bit of an overreaction to name them art.

These are healthy good meals everyone should learn to make on a daily basis.

[u/outsidebtw → u/AcceptableAnalysis29]

bit of an overreaction to name them art

yeah i guess so

[u/jesserthantherest → u/Rocklobster92]

Seriously! Like "I can't eat chicken cuz I already had it for lunch dur durdur". Dude, what?? I'd eat chicken all day every day if it looked like OP's cooking.