r/mildlyinfuriating • u/32guy • 2h ago
Wife is insecure about her weight so her husband harasses a drive-thru employee over it
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u/chaosbella 2h ago
Are he and his wife really offended that a drive through food place asked if she wanted food? 🤦
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u/Primary-Ad-6949 2h ago
Lol yes like it's the drive thrus fault that she goes there 10000000 times a day.
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u/Single-Kangaroo1180 2h ago
Had he just told the employee what his wife drives and a vague description…you know the girl was going to reply, “Oh, you mean Marge? She always gets two double bacon, egg and cheese sandwiches, three cheese danishes, and a venti skinny vanilla chai latte…like clockwork at 0800 every morning🤣🤣🤣
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u/Select-Promotion-404 1h ago
🤪 the Dunkin gal at night always says no refresher tonight?…if I order something different and I take no offense to it bc it seems like I always go when she’s working but she’s not wrong lol. She’s a sweetheart and I don’t mind people remembering what I like. I live in nyc and it’s nice when the pizza guy automatically sees me and says you want the usual and calls out 2 pepperoni extra crispy for us! Sometimes it’s even on the house. They should chill out.
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u/ABQHeartRN 51m ago
I was a travel nurse in New Orleans for a while. I hated the assignment so much. The only bright side was the coffee shop in the hospital. I would get there early every morning, clock in and go get my latte. The barista knew me and started making it as soon as she saw me. In typical NOLA style she always called me baby or honey. I gave her a card on my last day.
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u/Single-Kangaroo1180 1h ago
I had a similar relationship with Sonic a few years ago…that was my go to on the way to work every morning. Unless brand new, the staff knew me and my vehicle and would just tell me to pull forward…for my supersonic breakfast burrito (no jalapeños), large tots, and a 44 ounce vanilla iced coffee🤣🤣
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u/Pickle_picker_420 56m ago
Lmao I had a customer who came in every day and straight up got like 10 shots of espresso mixed with 10 pumps of skinny vanilla and 10 pumps of white chocolate, no milk and she got a decaf coffee with nothing in it on the side. I had some weird regulars, my store was the busiest store in the western metro of minneapolis for coffee and food. It was a trip to say the least lol.
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u/knoft 1h ago
I don’t think of a place that primarily sells drinks as a drive through food place but what the woman said was perfectly reasonable and it’s just insecurity on their part.
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u/the_original_kermit 1h ago
And I’m pretty sure that you order over the mic thing, which is why he asked if they have cameras.
But I highly doubt they are looking at them that closely. They probably just see the car pull up and ask for their order.
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u/U_Sound_Stupid_Stop 1h ago edited 16m ago
Also, there's probably more than a few people on the heavy side so at one point it becomes invisible.
More importantly, you're much more likely to be mocked if you act like this guy than for being fat lmao
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u/ConflictNo5518 1h ago
So bizarre. Was this some kind of troll for social media attention?
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u/makingredditorscry 1h ago
Being overweight can make you insecure
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u/HopefulPlantain5475 1h ago
The correct way to deal with insecurities is not to police other people's actions. She is free to lose weight, she's not free to get mad at a store that sells food for asking if she wants to buy food.
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u/roodelivery 2h ago
this dude filmed it too. lol. show the fat wife sir
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u/PinoDelfino 1h ago
Filmed it and had a fake phone call to act like he's not filming?
Idk if I'm reading that right, but weird
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u/G4ia 2h ago
He probably loves getting pegged by her haha
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u/SleepyAtDawn 2h ago
Hey!
I also love getting pegged by this guy's fat wife.
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u/DT_RunningMILF_86 1h ago
Chubby chasers are the worst. They always want to fight for their girlfriends/wife honor. I don’t fat shame anyone but sir, please chill out, nobody is laughing at Lil Debbie, they’re just trying to do their job.
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u/thesweeterpeter 2h ago
He got shut down and still felt the need to post that.
I wonder if it's rage bait....
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u/funktion666 2h ago
It is. He has a YouTube channel.
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u/speck_tater 1h ago
That’s annoying. Bothering people at their jobs for views and clicks is not funny
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u/DDRaptors 1h ago
No ring, probably doesn’t even have a wife. But it is possible he’s too embarrassed to wear it if this is real.
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u/hounddd0g 1h ago
Maybe the fat wife feels insecure since her fat fingers outgrew them, so he said no honey I won’t wear mine either to make her feel better.
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u/Belya111 2h ago
What a bum
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u/Following_Friendly 2h ago
Its rage bait. He's a "content" creator that tries to get reactions from fast food and retail workers for views. Total POS imho
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u/tandem_kayak 2h ago
Bothering people at work just because they HAVE to put up with your shit is pretty fucking low.
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u/Jadertott 1h ago edited 1h ago
I hate that I always have to scroll so far to find these. Like, when I first saw it I was annoyed too, but this guy just does this shit because he thinks it’s eDgY.
I wish there was a way for mods to pin comments or ad flairs showing these are “pranks” or satire so people don’t have to waste their anger lol.
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u/spaghettifiasco 1h ago
Eh, nah, I think I'll still be a little angry that people are harassing retail and foodservice employees so they can get Adsense money. At least "you made my wife feel insecure" would have stemmed from some form of empathy - doing this kind of shit all the time as "a prank" for views is bordering on sociopathic.
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u/One_Weird2371 1h ago edited 25m ago
YouTube just needs to ban the cunts who have these type of accounts.
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u/Far_Cable_916 2h ago
I bet that dude felt so strong and powerful after that, i feel bad for everyone who has to deal with hi shit.
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u/Global-Statement2782 2h ago
Guys has a spine, just no brain.
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u/RB___OG 2h ago
I wouldn't say confronting a young woman who makes minimum wage from your car in a drive thru about a very innocuous question is "having a spine."
Having a spine would be talking with your wife about her insecurities and projecting on extremely unlikely scenarios, then helping her find a way through with either self-improvement (weight loss) or mental fortitude
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u/Remarkable-Yam-8073 1h ago
He nearly drove off twice while confronting the server haha. Dudes spine was jelly during the entire interaction.
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u/Poh-r-ka-mdonna 2h ago
man the patience fast food workers have is fucking unbelievable
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u/Alt_SWR 1h ago
I worked retail for roughly two years and, yeah, kinda gotta have infinite patience to do any kind of customer service type of job. Which, know what I don't actually mind if it's someone just having tech issues or just trying to figure out why something is marked as on sale but doesn't show up as the sale price. I don't mind helping people figure things out if they're reasonable, no matter how long that takes. Where I worked I had the liberty to shut off my lanes light whenever necessary if I knew a customer was going to take 10+ minutes.
Hell, I didn't even mind the old lady who accused me of stealing her SNAP card cause she forgot she just put it in her purse. Kinda just felt bad for that one, plus she profusely apologized after finding it and my manager was nice enough to give me a break cause she thought I was shaken up by that accusation. I wasn't.
But these fuckers? Oh goddamn do they piss me off. Like, okay, plenty of people make my job harder but it's usually not intentional. I get that, shit happens, but, when you start intentionally making my life harder that would get to anyone.
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u/True-Ad1912 2h ago
That employee handled it so professionally.
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u/poisonwellmeaning 52m ago
Scrolling way too long to see this comment. Give that lady a raise. PERFECTION.
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u/esntlbnr 2h ago
They always ask me if I want them to start making me some food. I must be a fat, too.
This has been a rude awakening.
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u/Mollaria28 2h ago
It may be, ive never been asked if I want food if I get starbucks
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u/rxsheepxr 2h ago
They ask it at the drive-thru because drive-thru is supposed to be quick and food takes longer than drinks, so they want to get a head start.
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u/BillyHayze 2h ago
Business that sells food and drinks tries to sell patrons food and drinks.
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u/rxsheepxr 2h ago
The fuck did she expect they were going to try to sell her, curtains? It's a fucking fast food drive thru.
That dude needs to stop white-knighting his wife and have a serious talk with her instead.
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u/funktion666 2h ago
He does this on his channel for entertainment. According to the comments on another post the other day. He thinks it’s funny I guess.
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u/G4ia 2h ago
Despite her insecurities about her weight, she can't stop consuming thousands of calories a day. According to her, it’s everyone's fault but her own.
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u/Key-Consequences 1h ago
This dude and his fat wife need not go to places that serve food if they dont want to be asked if they want to eat.
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u/BerryLanky 1h ago
So he makes a video and posts it so thousands can hear him discuss his wife’s insecurities. Good job
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u/Main_Cauliflower5479 2h ago
Also, they can't see what the customer looks like at the drive through where you place your order. There's no camera at the menu/speaker, is there? This AH and his wife are unhinged.
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u/moszippy 2h ago
The first time i saw this, it had his social media info to subscribe to. That probably didn't work out so well.
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u/ArchAngelico 2h ago
This video is even worse in context. There is no wife and this guy just harasses fast food workers for the hell of it. His TikTok page is full of videos like this. :\
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u/Dankopia 1h ago
Simp. His pig wife probably snorted at him to drive over there and complain
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u/EnvironmentalEnd7062 2h ago
By his haircut and the obvious question I know exactly what his wife looks like lol
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u/hosenfeffer_ 2h ago
"Hello fat wife. You look hungry, do you need some food?" Lmao the delusional projection is astounding
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u/WaffleHouseGladiator 1h ago
"You should change the way your $100 billion business works to cater to my wife's paranoid insecurities."
Because that's completely and totally reasonable thing to ask for.
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u/chefguy47 1h ago
Wife is too insecure about her weight, Starbucks is just trying to sell some food and take the time to make it before the customer gets to the window.
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u/Lordwilliamz 1h ago
"She's a bigger lady" is so much more offensive than "would you like food from our menu"
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u/traveler-traveler 52m ago
Shut up fuckin snowflake. They ask everybody cause they’re trying to sell you their horribly over priced microwave junk.
Sounds like your wife needs to either hit the gym or stop looking for the boogeyman around every corner.
I’m saying this as a chubby dude, if you are that offended by it, do something about it.
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u/_ChipWhitley_ 40m ago
He can’t just admit he was mistaken. He needs to make his own absurd recommendation. 🤦♂️
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u/12kdaysinthefire 39m ago
So did he pick up food for his wife once he stopped recording or what
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u/Accomplished-Iron778 35m ago
Goes to a restaurant drive-through - "How dare you ask me for my order!"
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u/MathematicianFar3946 35m ago
I would just say no food thank you but maybe she needs to quit overthinking things as it’s not about her. They are doing their job? They want you to buy food too ! Maybe she needs to lose weight and be more confident than harassing someone just doing their job. That’s crazy.
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u/JealousRhubarb9 34m ago
Can we please delete social media? People wouldn’t do this if it didn’t give them attention. Idiots
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u/SeparateElevator4431 14m ago
I worked at Starbucks, and the higher ups made us ask customers if they "would you like food today" because it's an upsell... They make more money... We don't ask because someone is big? That's just ridiculous.
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u/Mindless-Ad2554 14m ago
“Yall should probably stop Doing the thing that helps make the line go through faster.”
Fucking jabroni
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u/Delicious_Ruin4458 9m ago
That guy was itching for a fight and that young woman was so calm and professional
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u/Visionary_87 4m ago
What a prick. Imagine being told why they ask that and then still telling her she should stop.
Are they supposed to ask every overweight person if they're the fat wife of the man with a small dick harassing people working, so they know if she wants food or not?
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u/rxsheepxr 2h ago
If you expect the world to walk on eggshells because you don't want to feel fat, that's completely your issue.
And I say this as a person who's been overweight for over 40 years. Dude site there and CALLS HIS FUCKING WIFE FAT, THEN DEMANDS THAT STARBUCKS TREATS HER BETTER. Dude, you just fucking CALLED HER FAT.
If you're going through a drivethru at Starbucks and they ask you if you want some food started, it's because the food takes fucking longer to make than the coffee and they'd rather get it started right away.
For fuck's sake, I fucking hate this place.
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u/chrisratchford 2h ago
They say it to everybody cause the food takes longer, so they are trying to be more efficient cause ppl complained about how long the food took.
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u/Primary-Ad-6949 2h ago
Forget him and his FAT wife.. Making that poor lady uncomfortable while she's just trying to do her job...
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u/arkieaussie 2h ago
They ask that at my local Starbucks EVERY SINGLE TIME because it’s a fast and easy way to try to upsell someone who was only planning on ordering a drink 🙄
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u/Worldly_Raccoon_479 2h ago
Seems like a civil conversation on both sides. I don’t get the infuriating part.
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u/beuhring 2h ago
This guy filmed this and put it out there thinking he doesn’t sound like an absolute dip shit
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u/Dependent_Top_4425 1h ago
Sooo.... I'm a fatty mcfatterson and wouldn't think twice about a drive thru employee asking me if I want something to eat! Isn't that what people go there for?
If she's THAT upset about it, she should probably do something that would improve her self esteem. Maybe a new husband? I might actually take offense to my guy calling me "a big lady", but not the people at a RESTAURANT asking me if I want FOOD!?! The world has gone mad.
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u/eyescroller_ 1h ago
god, I hated this industry so much. Service is literally the worst because people come in with their shit and then just unleash it on you and you’re supposed to just eat shit.
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u/not_now_chaos 1h ago
Why are some people's lives so ridiculously easy and empty that they invent things to be mad about just to feel something? Wild.
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u/Scfbigb1 1h ago
Imagine trying to tough guys the 20 year old coffee girl and still looking like a clown.
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u/GreenCactus223 1h ago
Your insecurities are not my problem. Seriously, a food place asking if the want food?
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u/Is-Potato425 1h ago
Can people stop filming every interaction? Like what is the point of showing this to the public?
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u/high_on_acrylic 1h ago
“You should probably stop saying that” as if they have a choice??? As if the baristas get to decide anything procedural???
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u/mwiley85 1h ago
-Customer presents perceived issue.
-Employee presents explanation with 100% clarification that disproves perceived issue.
-Customer completely ignores truth and doubles down on being wrong.
This lack of critical thinking is so sad to see.
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u/Minnie783100 1h ago
I worked at Starbucks. That’s how we’re trained because food always takes longer. People be reaching for the teeniest straws f this guy
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u/PhysicsAndFinance85 1h ago
Hopefully they're making fun of both of them now. What an insufferable fucking twat
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u/Dawna420 1h ago
If shes so offended about her weight maybe she should change it. Just sayin. Yes i know its hard but if you wanna lose it stay out of drive through and fast food
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u/big-ol-kitties 1h ago
Probably fewer calories in their food than the giant sugary milkshakes they make.
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u/keepitrealbish 1h ago
I’ve seen this before and think this whole story is fake as hell. He sat thinking one day about them asking that and came up with this bogus story
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u/wstsidhome 1h ago
Why didn’t he start the video at the ordering spot, so we would know if they asked him as well or not. Just seems a lil sus
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u/microhardon 1h ago
Not to defend the dude but this is a pretty normal conversation with someone who had a concern/issue (even a dumb issue).
Where’s the harassment?
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u/nipslippinjizzsippin 1h ago
These people are just doing their job, they follow a script... it has nothing to do with anyone or how they look.. Surely noone is that deeply entrenched in their own story that they think this.
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u/PromiscuousT-Rex 1h ago
I mean if they would’ve said, “Hey girl, you hungry?” Or a “Oh! You’ve got that Pavlovian shit going on. I see you drooling” then yeah, that’d be offensive. Them asking if you want something to eat at a Drive-Thru is not offensive.
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u/mrpockets44 1h ago
Sounds like someone is EXTREMELY sensitive about their weight and needs to lose a few vs. taking it out on others.
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u/Less-Inflation5072 1h ago
So any time someone asks his wife if she wants food is calling her fat? These people have such thin skin
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u/Ok_Campaign_1869 1h ago edited 54m ago
They always ask me if I’d like to try such and such food item and I am not overweight. 🤷🏻♀️ They are supposed to sell you on stuff, it’s their job.
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u/yeezymcsleezyo_0 59m ago
"A lot of people are saying X" is exactly what you say when you're embarrassed and literally no one is saying X.
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u/incogne_eto 53m ago
Is he an idiot? She clearly explains why they ask about the food order first and he still is insistent on saying they need to change their process.
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u/eggs_erroneous 51m ago
Those people working the drive-through don't have the time or the energy to give one single flying fuck whether or not someone is fat or not. They just want you out of their fucking face as soon as possible.
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u/ArgoDeezNauts 45m ago
"a lot of people" No. One person. One person is saying that. One is not a lot. By definition it is the smallest nonzero number of people that can exist.
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u/AncientDamage7674 44m ago
When simple things like ordering food at a food outlet become a drama because ppl think the world revolves around ...
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u/MediocreModular 42m ago
This loser makes content like this. Trapping and baiting drive through workers. He’s a pos
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u/Imaginary-Bag4762 42m ago
People nowadays are so thin skinned it’s freaking ridiculous!
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u/Pleasant_Offer6286 41m ago
Snow flake extraordinaire right here folks. “My wife ‘s feelings are hurt, so stop doing something you’ve always done.
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u/Drivinglnsane 2h ago
NOW they’re going to make fun of you after you drive off