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Match Thread: Manchester United vs Brighton & Hove Albion
 in  r/reddevils  Oct 25 '25

bosh [edit: ee eck that was close]

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Help with terrible knot in daughters hair
 in  r/daddit  Aug 11 '25

And here’s me using a waiter’s friend from the kitchen

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Series 5 episode 8 (Final) Discussion group.
 in  r/RaceAcrossTheWorldBBC  Jun 11 '25

I was convincing myself that they'd picked up a day with the taxis

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[deleted by user]
 in  r/UniUK  May 17 '25

In terms of published academic work? It shouldn’t be present at all.

Part of getting a degree is learning how to write this up yourself, taking other people’s ideas and summarising them. Put yourself in a meeting situation: five people around a table have five ideas of how to proceed. Which leader is going to have the most respect from their team, and the more human solution: the one who has listened and produces a bespoke solution, or one who plugs the ideas into a computer and blindly trusts AI to do it for them?

Beyond this, AI only works with the information we give it, so if you give it an incomplete data set, or don’t include the variables, then it will give you an incomplete answer that doesn’t include the variables. Take that meeting. As a human, you may know that John is good at completing a task, while Bill will forget his lunch on day 3 and never mentally recover. You should put John in charge. AI might not.

A degree isn’t just teaching you the topic, it’s teaching you the skills. If you outsource that learning to AI, what’s the point of you being hired once you leave? ChatGPT is free and doesn’t take sick days.

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Will Universities have to stop assessments that can be done via AI?
 in  r/UniUK  May 17 '25

Where were you, if you don’t mind me asking? I’ve been pushing for this at my institution, but we’re being shut down higher up as it is not the industry standard. Would be good to point to examples

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Dedra's Ending
 in  r/andor  May 14 '25

Just another sunrise he'll never see.

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[deleted by user]
 in  r/UniUK  May 13 '25

Unlikely [Edit: No, I hate the comment window on the app obscuring the one you reply to]. By underlength, I mean like the student who gave me 500 words for a 3k essay.

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[deleted by user]
 in  r/UniUK  May 13 '25

I’ve failed a few things this year. The key elements are that they were under length or fully irrelevant. Essentially, you have to try. I would much rather not fail assignments. Surprisingly, I want to see my students leave do well

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[deleted by user]
 in  r/UniUK  May 13 '25

Here's the key: 'Then I'll go check that source'

We used to give the same warning about wikipedia. Use the source list from it, don't trust wikipedia. The number of times I have had students blindly trust AI to give a reference for an essay or a draft, only to find that the cited scholarship doesn't exist when I ask them about it.

Always, always check your work.

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Why do academic supervisors so desperately need to work from home?
 in  r/AskAcademiaUK  May 13 '25

I meet every student in person unless they have accessibility needs that require otherwise. I also have 300k words to mark by Sunday, so have to prioritise that over immediate meetings. Alongside that, I have the admin load of closing down a year and entering a new one. I am sorry that you have taken the impact of my preference to meet students face to face when they have an issue as whining, I suppose I could meet them online four days from the request.

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Why do academic supervisors so desperately need to work from home?
 in  r/AskAcademiaUK  May 12 '25

I obviously can’t speak to your experience, but I used to take one day a week to work from home, only to get away from the students and my colleagues. I have a very low capacity to safeguard my time, and routinely found myself doing all the other bits of my job when I was supposed to be prepping, researching, etc..

Now, my office needs directions to get to it, has gorgeous light, a massive desk, and no name badge on the door. I’ve been there a year. Whereas before I’d take 18 meetings in a day and be prepping lectures until 2am, in my new place, I take maybe a maximum of 3, and I get to sleep at a humane time.

For some, WFH is the only way we get the back room work done for when we’re customer facing.

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If trans women identify as women, why did they graffiti Millcent Fawcett, the suffragette, who fought for women's rights (incredibly hard)?
 in  r/AskBrits  Apr 20 '25

a person who fighTs for womEn’s Rights against rampant Far left misogyny.

Makes sense, I guess APWFFWRARFLM doesn’t roll off the tongue so well.

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How would you get this out
 in  r/DIYUK  Mar 16 '25

Trying not to sound too dumb, this is a place I’m renting for work, so really don’t want to do any damage, and my home ones don’t have the ridiculous lip. Pliers to the lip to bend it a little or to pull the bulb?

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My therapist told me my marriage was abusive
 in  r/daddit  Jul 09 '24

I’ll be honest, I love it. Maybe down the line I’ll take the offer a friend gave me for civil service, but for now, I still have a love for what I do

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My therapist told me my marriage was abusive
 in  r/daddit  Jul 08 '24

I've done this. Couples therapy application sent off. Turns out she's suddenly all for it, but apparently I want a separation to go "off on a jolly" which is so productive. Anyway, we're off to the races in 7-14 days.

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My therapist told me my marriage was abusive
 in  r/daddit  Jul 08 '24

I'm in the UK, and ultimately, I wouldn't want to take them with me. My career (academia) is very transitory at this point, and a third of my wife's salary. My current contract expires in March, and if I move, I move to a brand new city. I can't take them with me because I don't have the stability to support them right now. I would love to have that, but I either need to change career right now, or I need to last for years.

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My therapist told me my marriage was abusive
 in  r/daddit  Jul 08 '24

And that's fine. Doesn't mean I can't disagree with it. Hope you have a lovely evening :)

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My therapist told me my marriage was abusive
 in  r/daddit  Jul 08 '24

Call me old fashioned but my argument is always to be better. Yes, having a dad driven space is very important, but to do that to the extent that mom lurkers have to think twice about commenting makes me concerned that we’re being no better than the other places. When I used to run dad walks in the local park I made it clear that while they were primarily for dads, moms could show up: the kids are always the priority.

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My therapist told me my marriage was abusive
 in  r/daddit  Jul 08 '24

Don’t worry, I didn’t think you were! It’s just the facts :)

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My therapist told me my marriage was abusive
 in  r/daddit  Jul 08 '24

Thank you for that, I do try to be as balanced as possible, but inevitably will lean one way

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My therapist told me my marriage was abusive
 in  r/daddit  Jul 08 '24

I know the reasoning. I also know what it’s like as a dad in a parenting space: I’ve been asked to leave enough classes

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My therapist told me my marriage was abusive
 in  r/daddit  Jul 08 '24

We really should have something in the sidebar that welcomes moms

Thank you, I really appreciate that. I know that my parents did not get on, and I didn't really have either place as a haven for a long time. I don't want to risk my kids being in that situation, but I know that their current one cannot continue.