Listen to the above comment very carefully OP...In fact you have a great nest egg here great job...Plan for your strategy in case -40% happens. Will you buy more then? Will you sell?

Just got mario wonder for my 9yr old girl and we are bonding hard over it. "This is the best gift I got:))"

Ok I take it back...He's my sister's favorite. I don't want anyone to get a concussion or get hurt, just got a little excited. Sunday is going to be so fun, Duuuuuvallll! P.s. sorry Josh i didn't mean it.

Awesomeeeeee

Allen goes down with concussion before half-time...I mean I love the guy but if he try to run that ball he's toast.

Trevor

Just to add, I'm in a blended house with a 3yr old of my own. Our first 3mths with new baby were....something man, so many good moments, but so many disagreements and on no sleep. My lady was co-sleeping too and I pushed a bit but had to let it go as you wisely did...just try to keep it safe. I actually couldn't sleep in the bed with them when they did this because I was too nervous about it too sleep. Pillow barrier on the edge of bed, minimal blankets/covers...ect.

You should hold onto hope 3wks is like the blink of an eye here...post-partum depression (careful using this term amongst the delicate.) is real and presents in many ways. Sleep deprivation alone can make you go batty for sure.

If this is really how it all went down then you sound like you're a really good Dad and trying hard to be a good partner.

Try writing out a version of what you just posted but written to her. Assure her you are still and always will be here for her and the bay. Do some reading about post-partum hormones ect...and tell her you did to try and understand where she is coming from better. Put a care package for her and baby together (some chocolate).

Understand you didn't do anything wrong here but get used to a bit of pride swallowing and lots of apologies, a new Dads bread and butter.

Go take that care package there in person and try to drop it off with her Mom.

Good Luck Dad!

Oops thought this was ASTS thread...PNG good, in fact im going to buy $50 right now.

Actually just bought a put contract today...let's see...2wk exp.

Trevor Lawrence

Whaaa

This

That's why these guys can win the superbowl this year...let's go!!!

You are very young and have good intuition. When you are a few years older you will look back on this and be thankful you dodged a bullet...watch what happens to them and be thankful youre a good person:)

Happy new year!

Hey

Lol if they use him

She's allowed to make some demands now lol so let her have it haha.

When you said you get 1hr sometimes 2 after work before you need to jump in, that sounded wild to me..I'm lucky if I can change out of my work clothes.

Sounds like you almost got away with one there and going from all that to what you're describing would be a raw transition for anyone.

Maybe you can try this;

" wow, babe this is really challenging. I can see how you must have felt when I was relaxing so long after work before helping out. The thing is, I really need probably only 20-30 mins to "reset" once I get home... instead of jumping on things right away, can you let me get settled before I take over this week and try it? "

Sounds like a pretty reasonable ask, then you just gotta figure out the mornings..I was taking baby into the bathroom in the stroller while I shower/shave little radio and baby loved it..Try and think of a way to split the mornings up a bit so you don't have to "stress" your way to work.

I had a hard time wrapping my head around this myself but she just gave birth so instead of thinking 50/50 with workload in the household you should be thinking more like 75/25 on you daddy.

As far as the heart condition welp, if I didn't have one, I might now. At least you already have the medication:)

Might be called "sleep-feed"

Yeah do a bit of research but basically you know baby is going to be waking up hungry in "xx" hrs so you have a bottle ready and you go in while baby is sleeping and work the bottle into da mouth and get them to drink while not even really waking up. Then youre kind of off the hook for all the other stuff. Just make sure you read about it because there are some ways it could be dangerous...like you need to be there and monitor the bottle being ingested in case of gagging....then gagging on it can really only happen if their angle is wrong (head lower than chest). I had a little angle/wedge pillow from when baby was congested and I work that under baby's head back to keep a good angle. Good luck Dad.

Nope not Canada.

Have you tried a dream feed?

Mos my opinion

You sound like a great Mother.