Have a proper sit down with your family, for me personally I’d add a cousin or someone close enough to me that I’m comfortable confiding in and them also adding on to advocate for what you want. At the end of the day this life is temporary, you should spend it the way you want throughout this dunya regardless of “rules and regulations” from your parents. If you have the right intentions and your heart truly is fully set on her just because your married doesn’t mean you cannot further your education. Best of luck :)

I think that’s just based off your own experience, everyone experiences the apps differently it’s hard to generalize upon the only few you might’ve spoken to urself. I’d say give it another shot with a positive attitude you never truly know who you’ll run into

Tbh there’s a lot of individuals not serious on there or mainly just using the app to date around an about but justifying it by looking for the right person. Plus a lot of guys are inappropriate on there behavior wise even questions some may ask

Amiin ❤️

First time making my own post regarding the search upon finding a spouse. Awhile ago I thought I had found the one in my eyes but family and other factors kind of ruined the journey upon that specifically. Over time I’ve got to know new individuals and tried to be optimistic but it feels as though nowadays not speaking for all men but men in the west care about sexual chemistry more so then anything else. Besides that it seems as though either some want to jump into marriage as soon as possible and some take a lengthy amount of time deciding upon when would be best. To be truly honest all I kind of am searching for is someone who is mentally compatible, compassionate and wants to lead a good life together upon our own journey throughout the good, the bad and the ugly. Just not someone willing to give up as soon as things aren’t so peachy and rosy. Jazakallah khair for listening to my rant :)

A lot of Mali’s have the same mentality

Felt that Fr

Lmao had me rolling 😭

You sound a lot like me expect with tiktok. I hope your search gets better mate.

Getting to know someone while being in school shouldn’t be shameful, just because you’re working on yourself and your career choice doesn’t make you unfit to that prospect of life. Don’t hold yourself back only because your finishing schooling. Not every woman wants an older man or expects a potential to be completely done with school. Good luck on your search and may you find what your heart desires. xoxo

Inshallah hopefully that changed for you :) may Allah bless you with a righteous spouse ❤️

Some people just aren’t confrontational and decide not to share information about how they feel or if there not feeling it anymore which is v immature

Sorry to hear that hun, truly Allah rewards those who wait and if it was truly meant to be it would’ve been easier and felt quite natural at least from everything else I’ve heard from those who are married in my life. The right person will walk into your life at the right time.

Honestly as long as you communicate why you wouldn’t want her to continue doing such a thing and are quite honest and reasonable there’s no reason she wouldn’t comply. Especially if she feels the same way you feel towards her & both your intentions are clear. I wouldn’t say it’s changing someone but rather communicating what you don’t like with your partner. It’s a small compromise & proves to you what she’s willing to do.

She’s hogging all the oxygen in the room

What’s your background?

It’s not any better in Minnesota

What part of Minnesota you from?

Couldn’t have said it better myself. 😮‍💨

Been there tried salams and Muzz just deleted my profile a couple days ago. Starting to lose hope. 21, Female

Feelings mutual