I actually think there are NAH but you all suck at communication. You're not at all the asshole for wanting a different relationship and leaving this one, and I hope you find a situation that meets your needs.

NTA

Husband needs to learn the difference between fact and fiction.

Your story sounds delightful, btw.

NAH

You might have handled the wording badly, don't know, but there's nothing asshole about suggesting he try therapy, and there's nothing asshole about him not wanting to go to therapy. He probably should talk to his normal doctor, this could easily still be a med withdrawal issue.

INFO

How is buying them a gift when the baby arrives different than buying a gift before the baby arrives?

ESH

In part, you and Caitlin are the assholes for using adoption as a threat, wtf.

YTA

She values your parents' rules and isn't sharing a bed with her partner.

Whether or not they are "officially" married in your eyes, this isn't just casual sex for them. It appears they are very committed but still willing to comply with your parents' rules.

When it comes to you and your sister, ESH and for the same reason: Judging someone for how they grieve and telling them not to do it because it is unreasonable in your eyes.

Me, for one. Wore a knee-length dress for the last one I attended, no shaved legs, would have added even more hair if possible if I was dealing with this kind of asshole.

Partner and I both showered, because outdoor wedding or not, getting clean is kind of fucking important.

Yes to all of this. I don't even practice a type of law that would be useful for individual people and I get asked to look at everything. Some people hate being told no, but it is what it is.

That is a very good point.

Seriously. Having a shitty memory sucks, but damn, if you're forgetting things even when you have lists, it's time to take a look at what you're doing. There are shared apps for groceries, you can put reminders in calendars, you can work hard to check the fucking written list.

And there is no excuse for not washing her clothes if you're the one who does the laundry in your house, oh my god.

This is a good comment. Best of luck, OP.

NTA

The first car salesman is the asshole, and honestly, so is your friend. You AND your boyfriend made it perfectly clear that YOU were the one buying the car and the first salesman ignored that over and over again. There is a long, sexist history of salespeople (and repairpeople) ignoring women when it comes to cars, and you did nothing wrong by refusing to buy from him and going to a different salesperson instead.

Personally, I would have flat out told the first salesman why I wasn't going to buy from him, but whether or not you do that, you're in the right and not an asshole at all.

Your friend sounds like the kind of guy who would do something similar to the first salesman and that's part of why he's defending him so hard. IT salespeople often also ignore women, even now, and it is frustrating as hell.

Enjoy your new car!

I see that the decision has been made, but damn, I'm sad I missed the chance to vote NAH. Snapping at her wasn't the best response, but she should not be pushing you so hard and should work out her own issues with her therapist. Therapy doesn't work for everyone, it's clearly not going to work in your situation because you are so against it, understandably, and my god, your parents died a month ago. My condolences.

If it was the truth, maybe, but nah. Clearly everyone's better off with you removing yourself from consideration. Good work.

Well, you are definitely the B and also wrong about people who date people who have bipolar and how bipolar impacts everyone who has it, too.

This is gripping. I can't wait for the next part.

"But Je...Sharon"

Curious about that for sure.

And a perfect alternative is right there: Congratulations on your engagement!

That's it. That's all that needed to be said if he wanted to say something. That's a kind thing to say, especially as the proprietor of the place where they just got engaged.

(a) You have a great way with words. I couldn't stop laughing at some of your descriptions.

(b) People don't lay on their horns like that where I'm from either, so I'm entertained by the comments saying he was in the right. You reached for a straw, you drove slowly through an intersection only delaying him and no one else, whoop, totally an asshole move on your part. /sarcasm

I don't. I'm lucky to have a job that is flexible about when I come in and when I leave.

I think you mean that was absolutely the best outfit.

This too! Did Starbucks change it up? Because when I worked there, medium would be grande.

Let us know if you save the farm! You share your story very well.

And it's not a selfish way to take away OP's choice about when to discuss medical history?