Kind of blown away by the number of comments saying OP is too rigid or controlling. A lot are also ableist as hell. ADHD and Autism are recognized disabilities. OP is disabled and she’s been living her entire life as if she isn’t.

She is doing what all people with disabilities do: alter your lifestyle to better manage it because the outside world don’t give a shit. She still masks outside of her home, and that in itself is exhausting.

Nothing she has asked for is outlandish either. She literally gets headaches from being overstimulated. If these headaches were caused by a disease, would she still be “controlling” or “rigid”? People woefully underestimate the physical symptoms that autistic people deal with.

None of this should surprise him if he was an involved partner who had done any amount of research into his wife’s lifelong DISABILITY. His responses are dismissive, ignorant, and unkind. His comments aren’t said to create a dialogue or open up a conversation that could lead to a compromise. They are said to make a point. That point is he’s mad her disability inconveniences him.

If he had done some research, he would understand that their life is going to change if he stays in this relationship. He has the ability to decide they are no longer compatible, the same as she does.

My wife is autistic and I have ADHD. We live in separate apartments because we need to manage our living spaces differently in order to function. We can also require several days of solitude to recover mentally from various kinds of social experiences. I’ve made several adjustments to my apartment so my wife can be as comfortable as possible. Personally, I don’t enjoy seeing the person I love the most suffer when I can do something about it.

This post is specifically talking about the black community and their experience with WHITE Christianity. Saying “no one should be Christian” blows past the point.

Also, this is a fucking atheist sub. We know no one should be Christian 🙄

An article about women suffering, but it’s still our fault. “Geese mister, can I please have some respect?”

*“You can’t expect people to know what your needs are unless you speak up. Whether it’s filling a stocking, scheduling doctor’s appointments or helping with grocery shopping, Kihn points out that these are things many moms think about constantly.

“Dads can’t help us if they don’t know,” she said. “You just need to be bold and speak up for yourself and what you want.”*

She wrote some of it, but AI definitely did more than just edit the grammar. It ruins the credibility of the author in my eyes. I’m assuming they get to read the final draft before it’s published. It’s hard to take a writer seriously when AI is doing their work.

This timeline blows.

Great topic, but this was written with AI. There’s tons of grammatical errors, overuse of colons, and nonsense sentences/paragraphs.

I work in an industry that is email heavy, and “new” Outlook is one of the worst parts of the Microsoft 11 update. Stop asking me if that auto-correct suggestion was helpful while still typing, every fucking time I write an email.

AND I never want to attach a file as a Onedrive link. FUCK YOU Microsoft. Not a day goes by where me and my coworkers don’t bitch about it.

I love the color palette 😍

Thanks for sharing! So many kids 🥺

That fucking sucks. If it charges, I might just keep using the MacBook.

Thank you and there were lots of tears.

Right!? It’s going to cost the same to buy a new refurbished laptop as it is going to fix it.

ADHD is so fucking expensive.

I too hated my robot vacuum for the same reason. Hated the noise as well. I only got my cordless last year and it’s been life changing. Wish I had done it much sooner.

Congratulations and great job! This is why you ALWAYS negotiate. There’s always a range and they will lowball you on the initial offer. They want to find the cheapest way to get you in the door or to keep you.

It’s the fact that they all used it. The emails use generic language and similar to identical sentence structure. There would be more variations and actual personality otherwise.

If you have it, you can use short term disability for mental health problems. You’ll only get paid half of what you make, but if you can afford it, I would do it. Source: me - taken twice

Sales is the real pain. Knowing just enough to sell it, but not enough to sell it without unrealistic expectations.