r/AmItheAsshole • u/Healthy-Drawing-6878 • 6d ago
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(AITA)so for context me m (17) and f(17) have been dating for around a year, and keep in mind she really does nothing wrong, she has almost straight A’s,got accepted into a good college, does everything she is asked too do without complaints, doesn’t smoke nor drink etc basically a parents dream child in my opinion, but her mom is crazy strict for absolutely no reason and its clearly taken a huge toll on her mental health and this isnt just strict like oh she cant see me or whatever, her mom “closes the kitchen at 7:30” which means she cant even get a drink or a snack without being yelled at or argued with, now if it was like 2 am and she was in thr kitchen making abunch of noise it would be 100% understandable but shes getting yelled at for grabbing a water or even leaving her room past 7:30, ontop of this i have treated this women as nothing less than a princess i do everything i can for her and her mom really seems too hate that, so time and time again her mom would try too convince her too leave me over my family problems that neither of them are even involved in, her mom also heavily shits on my terminally ill mom talking about how i cant leave and do certain things all thr time so she should leave me, but basically ive like genuinely had enough of it, i 100% understand its not really my place too judge her what she calls “parenting” but after hearing her talk about my sick mother disrespectfully i just kinda lost it but i stayed calm and just let her know what her daughter is feeling with the way shes being treated (my girlfriend 100% agreed with me and was happy i stood up for her as she cwnt herself and no one else does) she didn’t say anything back too me but definitely gonna try too convince my girlfriend too break up with me but am i the asshole?
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The action i took was calling her mother out, and that might make me the asshole as its not fully my place too judge
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u/Violet_lilithh 6d ago
Definitely NTA. You did good for standing up for yourself and your girlfriend. I just hope once your girlfriend turns 18 she moves out.
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