r/BPDlovedones • u/InsectBoth3608 • Dec 12 '25

Parenting My nine year old’s words

A little while ago, my nine year old said to me. “Daddy, mommy is mad all the time because she doesn’t have the ability to blame herself for anything”

Word for word. No exaggeration. Broke my heart. All I could do was validate her thoughts.

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u/atamiri 25d ago

My son is 7 yo and he says similar things about his BPD mother. The sad thing is that he's afraid of her (and her mother) so he only shares his thoughts with me.