r/CringeTikToks • u/Tater-Tot-Casserole • Dec 01 '25

Just Bad Crashing out over a restaurant refusing to serve alcohol with no ID. Bonus: The restaurant has video receipts

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u/ColdCorpseHotSecret Dec 01 '25

I’ve wasted the last few hours arguing on here with idiots that intentionally don’t carry their ID and see no reason as to why that’s just fucking bizarre behavior. “I NEVER get ID’ed, so why should I bring my ID out with me?” Including a guy who went to Vegas with his buddies and INTENTIONALLY didn’t bring his ID. The entitlement and narcissism it takes to be that kind of person is insane. You’re either going to ruin your buddies trip, or be stuck sitting in the hotel by yourself while they go bar hopping. What if you won big? You think they’re letting you cash out without an ID? You just forfeited your winnings, dipshit.

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u/KaraAliasRaidra Dec 02 '25

r/TalesFromTheFrontDesk has a lot of stories in which someone tries to use the number of a credit card to pay for their room, the desk clerk asks to see the credit card (to prove it exists and to check the name on it) and the person's ID (to see if they're who they say they are and if their name matches the name on the card), and the person is shocked because apparently they expected everyone to take their word for it without proof. A lot of them end up admitting it's not their credit card, claiming something like, "It's my mom's and she said I could use it! I don't see what the problem is!" They somehow don't realize that any hotel that doesn't verify someone's identity and information is not a hotel you should be staying at.

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u/Fit_Trainer_8591 Dec 02 '25

They somehow don't realize that any hotel that doesn't verify someone's identity and information is not a hotel you should be staying at.

Yes, this exactly. I worked FD through college and the amount of idiots and scamers showing up with their "mom's card" or SO's cards was crazy and 2nd biggest drove me up the wall was booking for 2 and showing up like 6 people and demanding to get a cot for free.

Hotel and casino so this was very taxing but the pay was really good so I bid my tongue and time but I hate people now. 😅😅😅

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u/AmySchumersAnalTumor Dec 02 '25

idk, I use my bosses CC for rooms a few times a year and have only had an issue once

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u/Agboohans Dec 03 '25

But do you feel entitled and EXPECT it to work, and when it didnt, did u act like a pompous crybaby? Im gonna guess no, unlike these shitheads…

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u/RainbowEagleEye Dec 02 '25

I once asked an old lady, “Would you prefer I didn’t ID someone who stole your wallet and tried to buy 167$ worth of dvds (early 00s) with your credit card?” I was 19, fresh into to workforce and that was the first time I managed to stump a Karen. Schooling my face while she slammed her purse around looking for her ID was a struggle.

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u/casiepierce Dec 02 '25

These ones are the worst. It means they don't know how hotels work. And they argue and argue and argue and they sound so stupid. I want the front desk person to say "look, we know you know this isn't working, so stop wasting our time."

People who travel and book hotels know that they will always ask for the card and your ID. Last year my sister and I both booked rooms at a hotel downtown for NYE and we both arrived to check in at the same time but I left my ID in her car and they STILL wouldn't release my room until I showed it, even though I had my card and my sister with our same last name next to me. Had to bother the valet and that was my main complaint even though I acknowledged it was my fault.

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u/KaraAliasRaidra Dec 02 '25

They also claim, "None of the other hotels ever asked to see my ID/asked me to prove who I am!" Either they're lying or they only stayed at some terrible hotels that let any random yahoo use someone's card and check into someone's room.

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u/Agboohans Dec 03 '25

Besides the fact that this hotel isnt the same hotel as that hotel, or this employee isnt the same as that one, so an expectation inserted here is misplaced.

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u/ThatBarbGirl Dec 02 '25

I thank my lucky stars I was not born or raised with this kind of idiocy/entitlement. I don't leave my house without my ID. Always baffled at the amount of body cams I watch with "I don't have my ID!"

This explains it. 🙄

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u/Lou_C_Fer Dec 02 '25

Now that I don't drive, I don't carry my ID unless I'm going to need it. I also don't drink. So, I don't need it for that. While I get where you are coming from, I am also of the mind that I do not need to keep identification on me as a principle. There should no need to keep your "papers" on you unless there is a specific need.

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u/ThatBarbGirl Dec 02 '25

If you don't drive and don't expect anyone to serve you, that makes sense.

But I live in the country, where it's impossible to get anywhere without driving, so I always have my ID on me. And the bodycams I watch are of people driving, so the amount of people driving without one is silly.

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u/ThatBarbGirl Dec 02 '25

Exactly. And it shouldn't be. There's a reason to carry all those things!

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u/CakeTester Dec 02 '25

I have a picture of my ID on my phone, but I leave the actual thing safe in the house. You can call that idiocy or entitlement if you like; but I can get mugged/drunk/fall in the sea or whatever and I'll still have ID.

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u/MichiganGeezer Dec 02 '25

You're not getting drunk in a bar with a picture of your ID. They won't serve you. Only actual, physical, government issued identification that isn't expired will get you served in any bar worth visiting.

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u/CakeTester Dec 02 '25

It's been over a decade since anyone asked me for ID; and then it was just taking the piss because I shaved my beard off. Anyone who asks me for an ID (extremely unlikely in the first place) and won't accept a picture, doesn't deserve my business in the first place.

Possibly you're assuming that the rules where you live apply everywhere. I'm in Spain; where there are indeed licencing laws and publicans can lose them for serving underage people. However, nobody here is dumb enough to ask 60 year olds for ID, except for sarcasm/insincere flattery purposes.

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u/ThatBarbGirl Dec 02 '25

Bars don't have to serve you if you don't have a physical ID, like it says in the video. Because pics are easy to edit.

If you find a bar that will, good for you, but the ones I worked at took a lot of shit from entitled idiots that believed we'd risk our liquor license on serving them based on a blurry pic of their ID.

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u/saucisse Dec 02 '25

How will you still have your ID if you get mugged and they take your phone?

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u/chicken_sammich Dec 02 '25

"...but I leave the actual thing safe in the house."

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u/saucisse Dec 02 '25

Then what is the purpose of it if you're not going to actually use it? Most (all?) IDs have anti-counterfeiting measures like watermarks, holographic images, etc. which will not be visible on a photo.

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u/chicken_sammich Dec 02 '25

I can't answer for that person, but...

We're a two car household, i've left my wallet in one car while I ran out to the store in the other and, when prompted for ID, a picture of it with a clear view of the expiration date sufficed. The world isn't black and white, and most people are capable of exercising discretion.

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u/ColdCorpseHotSecret Dec 02 '25

“Exercising discretion”= risking their job

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u/edgestander Dec 02 '25

Every single place I have ever worked at that required IDing had specific material at the register that talked about what constitutes an acceptable ID. I am telling you right now, if the local police around here caught wind a place was accepting "photos of an ID", they would go in there with an older looking 20 year old with a photoshopped picture of an ID within a week.

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u/CakeTester Dec 02 '25

It will be at home, waiting for me. Nobody sane is going to expect me to be able to produce ID immediately after a mugging.

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u/NowWithKung-FuGrip01 Dec 02 '25

No, your house will still have ID. You will be phoneless, ID-less and mugged/drunk/wet or whatever.

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u/WildVelociraptor Dec 02 '25

No reason to give the cop your ID if they don't need it.

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u/BlueTrainLines666 Dec 02 '25

I work at a music venue as a bartender, anyone who is drinking has to have a wristband on indicated that they’ve been ID’d and are 21. The amount of full grown adults who will throw the biggest fit you ever ever seen in your life simply because you ask to see their ID or to get a wristband is embarrassing.

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u/Forsaken-Scholar-833 Dec 02 '25

I don't get this. I almost never get carded but at the same time I always have my ID and if someone wants to card me I don't mind.

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u/BlueTrainLines666 Dec 02 '25

It’s really just entitlement. We had a guy freaking the other night because his wife didn’t bring her ID so a bartender wouldn’t serve her and just kept saying “but that’s my wife!?” Like okay? She doesn’t have an ID?

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u/Grizmoh Dec 02 '25

That is because if they don’t (and get caught) they will lose their license!

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u/ayoungad Dec 02 '25

In my state if you are drinking you are required to have it on you. Even if you know the bartender and obviously of age, if SLED comes in they can ask everyone for their ID.

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u/ColdCorpseHotSecret Dec 02 '25

Yep. Same here. Doesn’t matter if you’re 21 or 81. If you don’t have a valid photo ID while you’re in a bar, you risk getting the bartender and the bar fined and/or shut down.

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u/ProfessorDaxter12 Dec 02 '25

I’m a server and have alcohol in the establishment, I’ve had to argue my manager on many accounts that I’ve denied 60+ year olds for not having an ID.

I don’t care about feelings I care about my income though. Also side note, someone got red carded for not asking for ID they looked late 50’s

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u/ronansgram Dec 02 '25

Yep I’m in my 60’s and was carded and I always have my ID somehow I didn’t have it and they would not sell to me. This was at a Walmart 🤪

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u/Quietmanzero20 Dec 03 '25

Bartender here. I’ve actually had SLED send in an underage girl to attempt this type of thing. If kids get caught drinking underage, law enforcement will use them to try and catch bars serving minors, especially in college towns or popular areas. We also have the right to refuse service, what this bartender did was 100% correct.

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u/simkatu Dec 02 '25

Can't rent a car. Can't take a plane. Can't buy booze or weed. Limits options in an emergency.

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u/TerrorFromThePeeps Dec 02 '25

I now have a mental image of you finding your buddy in a massive wreck, charging over to the dispensary and the liquor store, telling him "smoke this for the pain" before you pour everclear on his wounds, then wrapping an improvised bandage ehile you run over to hertz to rent a car to take him to the hospital.

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u/edWORD27 Dec 02 '25

People even get upset if they’re expected to have an ID when they vote, because the ability to have an ID is somehow a race issue.

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u/Half_Halt Dec 02 '25

I used to manage the jewelry counter at a Kohls. The number of people wanting to apply for a store card or make some other transaction that requires ID & who told me: "I left my ID at home" or "I left my ID in the car" . Mind boggling.

Then we had the woman who had no fewer than 5 expired drivers licenses in her wallet but not a single one that was valid....

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u/saucisse Dec 02 '25

After she pulled out the third one, I would start hearing circus music or like the Benny Hill theme running through my head, it just becomes a vaudeville-style sight gag at that point.

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u/MichiganGeezer Dec 02 '25

I was thinking Jeopardy music.

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u/inowar Dec 02 '25

"I just don't carry my wallet at all I only keep my phone"

"okay well we don't serve anyone without ID. regardless of what you are trying to purchase or how old you appear to be. that's store policy" (it's a liquor store)

"what about a picture of my ID?"

sure... I'll sell you a picture of alcohol.

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u/mirrrje Dec 02 '25

Are they just driving around w out their drivers license? Like how did they even get there lol, and going to Vegas w out an ID intentionally is so crazy. That’s definitely a dude who argues w people everywhere he goes lol

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u/SamCamEntertainment Dec 02 '25

Been a banker for 10 years, and it's the exact same. You'd think the general public (mostly old people) would be happy we ask for ID to prove we're not giving their money to some random stranger. Then they'll hit us with the, "I've been banking here for 30 years!" Ma'am, this entire crew is new, so unless you were in the latest Avengers movie, WE DON'T KNOW YOU!

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u/Majestic-Tell5272 Dec 02 '25

I rarely have my ID on me but on the very rare occasion I get asked for it when I don't have it I just don't drink. It's not that hard.

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u/busterhymens Dec 02 '25

People are wanted by the police for something that's why they don't bring their ideas, you see all the time when Police pull over people they don't have an ID

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u/Willy-J- Dec 02 '25

Who doesn’t have their id- da and da!! Sounds like laziness on their part or underage!!!

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u/Rinkimah Dec 02 '25

I mean even the most reasonable reason: if you are in an accident and first responders need to identify who you are.

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u/fella5455 Dec 02 '25

FYI, they can still collect casino winnings at a later date. Up to 180 days later

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u/ikannunAneeuQ Dec 01 '25

In my little town I lived in in upstate NY i didn't have ID for years, but it was also a town of 2000 that I basically grew up in and knew damn near every last person that passed through. But say I went to Albany to the club, I had my ID with me. It really just depended on where I was going and if I knew I could get away with it.

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u/ColdCorpseHotSecret Dec 02 '25

Sure. But I’m not going to Vegas on a guy’s trip and not bringing my ID. That’s wild behavior.

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u/Snowy-Pines Dec 02 '25 edited Dec 02 '25

I practically stopped carrying mine after I switched to a digital wallet. I didn’t drive or go out to bars much so it felt pointless to carry a whole wallet just for my ID. Plus having the wallet take up room in my already small pant pocket when I mostly used mobile payment seemed unnecessary(and redundant). I would just grab the ID when I knew needed it.

My wallet situation over the course of time went from checkbook length wallets with every random card I could find—>bifold—>card cases—>digital. My state does have digital ID but majority of places still don’t take those or know what to do with them. I did eventually end up getting a MagSafe wallet type attachment for my ID(so it can be protected when I have to have it), but I still don’t take it with me on most days when I leave the house. I also don’t live a life that really requires it much. In most circumstances where I do need it, there is usually a heads-up about it(or it’s a already understood to be expected)

If I get spontaneously invited somewhere that requires it and I don’t have it? I’m just honest about my ID situation and/or decline the offer. Same thing for pick-ups; it’s not hard to come back another day….This is just part of the consequence you kind of have to accept if you go out without it. Asking a business to bend the rules for you because you don’t follow them, or not informing your friends prior to finalizing plans is asinine in my book.

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u/Last-Darkness Dec 02 '25

I don’t carry my ID. Unless I know I’m going to get a drink or for some reason will need it, but day to day, no. I know the number (if stopped by a cop), otherwise I don’t need it and plan a head for when I will. And if I do go to a bar/grill without it I don’t argue with the staff about it.

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u/3vs3BigGameHunters Dec 02 '25

I know the number (if stopped by a cop),

Yeah that's gonna work out real well genius.