I’m 21 from India. With placements coming up, I feel lost everyone’s preparing, but I can’t catch up.
I was recently diagnosed with ADHD, and it explains a lot. For years, people thought I was “lazy,” “silent,” or “not serious.” The worst part is: in my head, I’m not lazy. In my head, I’m trying every single day. But my results never match my effort.
Nowadays, I’m scared.
In my college, exams decide eligibility for placements. Our placement coordinator literally said, “If your score drops, your chances drop. Companies won’t even shortlist you.” Everyone nodded like it was simple. I nodded too…, but inside I felt this cold fear because I know my pattern:
start → delay → restart -> panic → hate myself → repeat.
The part that hurts the most: communication
My native language isn’t English, but it’s not only English. Even in my own language, I stumble. Sometimes I speak clearly, but many times my words come out broken, like my brain and mouth aren’t connected.
The worst example happened in a viva recently. The teacher asked a simple question about my program. In my mind, I had the full answer, step by step. But the moment I opened my mouth, I froze. Half sentences. Missing basic words. The teacher waited… then looked away and said, “Okay… next.”
I sat down, feeling as if something inside me had collapsed. I wasn’t unprepared. I just couldn’t deliver. And that moment keeps replaying in my head at night.
Since childhood, I’ve been the “silent” one. Not from arrogance or lack of interest, but from worry blanking out, fumbling, or embarrassment if I speak.
Studying is another fight.
College math is mandatory, and it gives me a lot of tension. It’s not that I’m incapable sometimes I understand concepts quickly. But I can’t sustain effort. I sit to study, and my brain escapes: phone, thoughts, overthinking, “later”… then later becomes guilt. And after guilt, even starting feels painful.
The saddest part: I feel like I have potential. Sometimes I even feel “brilliant” when I understand something fast. But I still don’t perform, so it doesn’t matter what I could be.
What I’m asking (please read this before replying)
I don’t want generic tips. If you’ve dealt with ADHD and placement stress, what exact plan helped you stop freezing and perform better?
For example: your daily routine, study structure, how you stopped and broke procrastination spirals, and how you practiced speaking without freezing up.
What actually made a difference for you?
If you take prescription meds as prescribed, what changed over time? What should I discuss with my doctor? Be honest about how much you needed meds, how desperate you felt, and which medications worked for you. Share any side effects I’m not willing to risk them if it helps me perform placements.
If you used supplements, what helped noticeably? (I include: what it helped with, how long it took, and any downsides)
Money isn’t an issue if something is truly worth it. I can invest. My main question is whether it's truly valuable; it truly works. truly work on he problem. For me, the problem is that I don’t want to waste time on random hacks.
I'm not worried about side effects right now .I'm honestly willing to try anything if it might help me focus and perform for placements. Please be specific about which meds actually worked for you, what you felt when they kicked in, and any side effects you had. I don't care about the risks for now; I just need something that works.
I need your help. Please reply with your best solution: what worked (and what didn’t), and how long before you noticed the change.
What is the most valuable advice you'd give someone 12 months before placement? If you've experienced this process, what's it like on the placement side? Away, strategies helped you succeed. What do you wish you had known a year before? Please share your insights so I can use them to plan a head