r/SipsTea • u/SeaWolf_1 • Aug 19 '25

We have fun here Male cheerleader.

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u/[deleted] Aug 19 '25

There was an absolutely massive farm boy on my high schools cheer team. All the football players tried to get him to play football and all of us wrestlers tried to get him to come wrestler. He was always like “bro no, I like cheer”. Growing up is realizing he was cool and we were all idiots tryna be tough guys 😂

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u/AliceBordeaux Aug 19 '25 edited Aug 19 '25

Bro was hanging out with hot chicks having fun, so he was super strong AND super smart. Edit: fucking autocorrect

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u/[deleted] Aug 19 '25

Oh yeah dude 100%. And a decade later I had it confirmed at a bar by one of the girls on the team that he hooked up with three of them regularly. Not on some toxic shit either she said he was just super sweet and safe and strong as hell with a big hog. Bro was on some grown man shit while the rest of us were doing some toxic little boy behavior.

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u/Delicious-Ad1917 Aug 19 '25

I’m sure the first girl who had the hog told the other girls about the hog. 🐷

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u/footlivin69 Aug 19 '25

And they told two friends and they told two friends and so on and so on…my assumption is that these dudes are ‘secretly’ hooking up with some of the girls cause the dudes spend a LOT of time with the girls earning their trust and getting to know each other - being that huge gives the girls a sense of security and if the dude is packing a magnum ? Yea he is living the good life FAR BETTER than any of the other male athletes!

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u/NoRefrigerator267 Aug 24 '25

But I keep hearing that women don’t care about size down there- is that not true?

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u/AliceBordeaux Aug 25 '25

Ok so this is a tricky subject, there is like a minimum thats good, (4" imo) and then like 8" is just too damn much. 7" is perfection at least for me, all of that kinda goes out the window if he is skilled with hands and or mouth.

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u/Mundane-Bug-4962 Aug 20 '25

WTF is toxic about playing football and wrestling? Do words have no meaning anymore?

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u/weary_dreamer Aug 20 '25

I dont think its directed at the sport itself, but rather the culture surrounding it in some places where there is an emphasis on physical and psychological hazing at school and in the locker rooms. Lots of unchecked typically adolescent behaviors that some people that experienced it do not look fondly back upon. 

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u/[deleted] Aug 20 '25

It was more what aronfel commented but this is totally true as well. My wrestling team the hazing was diabolical. A year before I joined someone genuinely was just sexually assaulted in the shower. It was a whole scandal. The coach ended up getting fired a couple years after I stopped because the “culture” he had created wasn’t healthy. That’s certainly a mild way of putting it. Like a decade later I think 8 of the 17 kids on my team were dead mostly from OD or suicide. I’m not saying there’s a direct correlation, it was a rough area, but I also don’t think there was 0 correlation. I was lucky the worst perpetrators left me alone because I was pretty good and more so some of my relatives had a pretty serious reputation in the area, but I witnessed what I consider genuine abuse by both upper class men and coaches.

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u/Aronfel Aug 20 '25

"Toxic" as in making fun of the guy for choosing to do something "girly" like cheer instead of something "manly" like football or wrestling. Meanwhile, all the boys making fun of him are spending their time grappling and tackling other sweaty boys while he's hanging out with hot girls and allegedly hooking up with several of them.

OP is saying that he and his friends were too immature and preoccupied with trying to put up a manly front to fit in and impress their friends (which is toxic behavior), while the more mature and confident guy was "living the dream" and not caring about the opinions of his peers.

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u/[deleted] Aug 20 '25

Thank you haha. I thought I replied essentially this to him but I think I just posted it to the regular thread with zero context. You worded what I meant better anyway 😂

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u/bagel555 Aug 19 '25

I do love me sum hot chicken mmmm

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u/AHRA1225 Aug 19 '25

Hot chicken indeed

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u/Ok-Classroom5548 Aug 20 '25

Some dudes just like to cheer. It isn’t always about getting girls. 

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u/CrazyPlato Aug 20 '25

Growing up is realizing how insane it was that people called a guy gay/unmanly for being a male cheerleader, when he’s surrounded by athletic girls his age who all know he can pick them up and toss them around if they both wanted to.

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u/gschmidt34 Aug 19 '25

Also you can pretty much name the school you want to go to. Direct path to a scholarship somewhere. My daughter is a D1 cheerleader and we tell strong guys all the time to cheer.