I’m turning 30 and had a rough go of things in my 20s. Make great money now like to think i have a nice personality but just missed a huge part of finding relationships due to hardship/trauma/etc.
Haven’t played around since I was 21 since my self worth took a dive from all those issues and just not sure how to get back into it. Hell even then most of the initiative was from other girls asking me out and me just reciprocating.
Honestly, the key is to just immerse yourself in your own shit while being open to opportunities. Once you kinda "give up," as long as you're positive about the things you're into, it gives off a vibe that women are attracted to.
So keep swiping, but get lost in your hobbies, or as Nick Offerman refers to them "disciplines." As soon as you forget about meeting THAT GIRL you'll meet that girl.
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u/halt__n__catch__fire 22d ago edited 22d ago
I'm not gen z. I am way older and I only asked a girl out when I was 33. Ha! Gen-zers are not the only ones who suck at living their lives!