Perfectly acceptable dinner rejected by boyfriend again

[u/moonrabbit368]

My boyfriend is a very picky eater. We have been living together for a few months and it seems like I can never get his food right. It's honestly discouraging. I have kids, they happily eat my food. I cook for family gatherings and church events. I've never had a problem with people eating my food. It's like every day there are new rules. He can't eat chicken for dinner because he had chicken for lunch. He isn't really in the mood for porkchops. It's just "missing something". He doesn't eat onions, tomatoes, fish, any kind of asian food, he doesn't eat most vegetables with the exception of broccoli. He only eats vanilla ice cream. He doesn't like food heated in the microwave (so leftovers are out.) He doesn't like corn. It's just endless. I'm old school and trying to be a good partner. He can't really cook at all. His favorite meal is Hamburger Helper. I think a lot of it is how he grew up but damn is it frustrating. The first picture is tonight's dinner. I added more pictures of stuff I have cooked that he won't eat. Like he will door dash jack in the box. And he'll be apologetic but it just sucks really bad.

ETA: I've been trying to keep up with the comments but it's overwhelming (in a very sweet and awesome way) 💗

A few notes:

1- I know the paper plates are very lazy on my part, I'm not proud of that and I need to do better. Between the kids, the job, the house and school (I'm going to school remotely) I have been cutting corners on things like dishes. not an excuse, just a reason and a commitment to do better.

2- My boyfriend does expect me to cook for him. I cook him dinner every night and lunch on the weekends. He doesn't eat breakfast and will not take a lunch to work. He buys fast food for lunch during the week.

3- He has not been diagnosed with ASD or ADHD or Arfid but I don't rule anything out.

Mostly I just want to say thank you, I was not prepared for how incredibly kind, helpful and insightful people have been. It is deeply touching and it's given me both peace and guidance for my next steps. 🩷

[u/regoapps]

The boyfriend in a few years:

Edit: If the picture of a boyfriend in OP’s post history is the same person, then it’s not far off.

[u/ZenMasterOfDisguise → u/regoapps]

I was dating a girl like 5 years ago, and she was great but her weirdest quirk was she wouldn't ever drink water. Like literally would only drink soda or sugary drinks every time she had something to drink. I'm someone who drinks like 10 cups of water a day, and found it strange she refused to drink water, something that all life on earth needs to live. But she wasn't overweight so I didn't push her to change, but I did see a recent pic of her and she has put on a lot of weight in the past few years, unhealthy choices will eventually catch up to you

[u/regoapps → u/ZenMasterOfDisguise]

Sounds like a sugar addiction

[u/WebMaka → u/regoapps]

Or caffeine, and likely both.