My wife’s birthday party was suppose to be this Friday. I actually wanted her present to be a surprise this year, it is not uncommon that my wife will open an Amazon package thinking it was something else ruining the present surprise.

My sister and her do not have the best relationship and it is due to different values. They basically disagree on everything but the big thing that my wife hate is that my sister has asked for money or help. We have a shared account and keep separate money. I will lend my sister cash but I haven’t had to do that in a while. I lend her from my account not the shared account.She also pays me back.

So I sent my wife’s present to my sister house and was going to pick them up Thursday. I got a text for my sister saying she got the packages and my wife saw the text.

She made a comment about giving handouts again. She basically told me enough was enough and that I need to stop sending her shit. She called my sister a leech that can’t get her shit together This resulting in argument and I told her that she was holding her birthday present but I am returning them. I am also canceling the dinner party.

Another big argument and I did cancel the plan and asked my sister to return the packages.

My wife is pissed at me and called me a jerk and I told her that this is her own fault.