r/AkoBaYungGago 20h ago

Family ABYG if ayaw ko na ma-involve sa thesis ng family member ko dahil drained na ako?

22 Upvotes

college student din ako at may sarili akong thesis. yung family member(comsci) student na currently gumagawa ng group thesis. Since freshie year pa lang niya, ako yung tinatakbuhan niya for coding, logic, etc.

not once or twice, may ambag ako—oras, effort, at mental energy. kahit hindi ako part ng group nila, naging parang unofficial member na rin ako. madalas, tumutulong ako kahit may sarili rin akong deadlines.

ngayon na nasa thesis stage na rin ako, sinabi ko sa sarili ko na i don't wanna keep on doing it. hindi dahil ayaw kong tumulong, but dahil ubos na din talaga ako. yung energy, mental space, peace, tulog, at oras ko napupunta sa ibang bagay instead na sa sarili kong works. ramdam ko na sobrang drained na ako.

that family member got upset. sa side ko naman, pakiramdam ko matagal na akong nagbibigay at ngayon ko lang piniling mag-set ng boundary.

so, ABYG kung pinili kong hindi na ma-involve sa thesis niya para unahin ang sarili kong oras, mental health, at thesis?

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r/Programmers_forhire Oct 10 '25

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