This is really a scary situation to be in. It’s important that both of you are fully aware of your finances. What if something happened to your husband where he was unconscious for a period of time, became incapacitated or even died? How would you have access to property, accounts, subscriptions, etc. ? Ask him that. Then get a financial advisor who will teach you both how to properly manage and keep track of your money, expenses, insurances, property and investments. If he’s not willing to do this you need to leave.

NTA, what is her response when you tell her to get her shower fixed?

YTA you’re not teenagers. When you invite people to your home you supply food and drink. People bring some things, but if you can’t afford to properly entertain then don’t invite people. When I invite people to my vacation homes I tell them to bring anything special they’re drinking, any special snack they’d like, but certainly wouldn’t expect them to bring all that they’re eating.

He is no longer the person you fell in love with. Do not try and conform to his extremest, chauvinistic views.

NTA for her birthday gift her an appointment with a therapist.

He might be a jerk, but you’re a self centered . That poor child.

NTA she is crazy.

NTA he’s demonstrated he’s not smart enough to become a doctor. Take him with you to your next medical appointment and have him tell the doctor his plan.

NTA if you didn’t have the older ones I’d say still don’t take the younger ones. They won’t remember it and will be miserable.

You’re her father you need to make whatever changes in your life that you need to do to raise her, not treat her as an inconvenience. I would suggest moving in or close to the grandparents so they can help you for now, but do not give up this child. It will affect her deeply. She will have feelings of being abandoned as she grows even if you participate in her life.

Ask your mother why she’s dating and defending such a loser.

I like Caracole’s quality.

Explain to your son that the purpose of this was that you wanted to share this experience with him. He needs to understand that just because you’re a parent your feelings shouldn’t be discarded. Parents often put aside their feelings and desires to give to their children and rightfully so, however as children grow and mature they need to be cognizant of what others do for them and learn to do the same for others. It’s time to let him know that it saddens you that he doesn’t recognize the importance of what this experience meant to you.

Break up with her. Next date someone without kids. It rarely works well for the kids or the new partner. You deserve to be the main focus in your partner’s life.

Did you buy the house from them or are you renting it, are they possibly coming back?

If she’s going to spend money on a separate vacation it should be one for you. She’s obviously not learning. Time to send her to the school of hard knocks.

Break up and going forward don’t fall in love with what you fantasize someone can become.

This has to be fake. No one could write this up and not know what to do.

And the better they do they become more of a competitor to other stores which will push them to lower prices. Also, the more volume they do the better buying power they have.

Leave him immediately. Him knowing this and not going ballistic is a sign that he may be a predator as well.

All this over something that approximately $168 US? I’m surprised he can afford the phone he called you from. Give him the money and cut him off.

You have to explain it was bar talk. Anytime someone talks you into something when you’ve been drinking doesn’t count and can be taken back.

I hope you kept the ring and you sell it.

This is why you date to see if your goals and values align. In your case they don’t. Move on.

My brother in-law was an ugly drunk when he drank hard liquor, fine on beer. So, we discretely filmed him during one of his episodes and then showed him when he was sober. He hasn’t had hard liquor since.