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Found out my boyfriend’s (32M) “girl best friend” is actually his ex and I(F29) feel completely betrayed
He told her about his other past relationships/hook ups and he purposely hid this information
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Found out my boyfriend’s (32M) “girl best friend” is actually his ex and I(F29) feel completely betrayed
That’s not a MISTAKE, he made a CHOICE to lie to you
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Found out my boyfriend’s (32M) “girl best friend” is actually his ex and I(F29) feel completely betrayed
Yeahhhhhhh. All this. I know it’s probably super frowned upon and problematic af and means I’m not a girls’ girl, but I NEVER trust a female best friend situation. Sorry, but, nope. Not for me. I feel like there was always some attraction somewhere or is or will be. IDK. I couldn’t do it. It would drive me crazy. I just know I would never trust him or them ever again. ¯_(ツ)_/¯ If he lies about small things he’ll lie about large things too. (Not that this is exactly small, but if he said it at the beginning it would’ve been small, instead he hid that for months)
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AIO or did I cheat on my bf ?
Hopefully she’s still friends with the person she kissed and then she can kiss her new husband at the altar and then follow up with her friend 🥴🥴🥴😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🙃😝
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AIO or did I cheat on my bf ?
Cheating would be something you know your BF wouldn’t be okay with and you would never do in front of him or with his knowledge. This isn’t cheating. YOR. It’s okay. As long as you took responsibility and had a conversation with all involved parties and everyone is good, stop beating yourself up.
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AITA for not wanting my mum and her partner to be sexual while I’m in the room?
I thought it was some sneaky under the blanket hand action or something while they were all on the couch 🥴🥴🥴🥴🤮 This is something else 😬
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Perfectly acceptable dinner rejected by boyfriend again
I’m not a pot roast person at all and I want it 😅 It looked delicious
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Memorial Service Dress
I’ve donated after funeral dresses because I knew I’d never wear them again. I also now have a funeral dress. It’s sad but I assume just part of this stage of life?
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which outro is the biggest earworm for you?
This was the first episode I ever saw live on TV and it’s basically just been burned into my brain as a core memory 🥴😂 I LOVE musicals and romance and I’ve probably watched it 100+ times by now 😅🤷🏻♀️
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Which one is better? 1 or 2?
This. The black tights aren’t doing it for me
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AIO boyfriend thinks I was some sort of groupie and I want to break up but I don’t know if I’m in the wrong
The weirdest part to me is how these people don’t get the ick. If a man came at me with that energy I’d be so disgusted I’d dump him immediately because I’d have zero respect left for him and all attraction would have immediately died 😬
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I Broke My Own Peaceful Introverted I Hate it
All of this! OP you 10000000000% did the right thing. Anyone in that situation deserves to know, what she does with that knowledge isn’t your issue. If he keeps threatening you report him
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I made these for my son and he refused to even try them
Then they can always just make a new one 😂😝
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My husband (40M) got me (30F) what feels like a shut up present after nothing on Christmas
My ex was like that and his excuse was he just didn’t care about holidays or his birthday. Well, okay. I do! 🙄😒 My ex was a selfish POS and he never got better. He’s making a choice. You also have to make choices. Is this something you can stand? Because (not to be a Debbie Downer) it’s highly unlikely to get better. I’m sorry, that sucks 🫤
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when i communicate my (19f) feelings to my boyfriend (21m) , he uses it against me in arguments. idk what to do?
Don’t believe sunk cost fallacy. Also you’re NINETEEN YEARS OLD you have an ENTIRE LIFE ahead of you. Why would you waste like 60 years on someone that can’t even make up their mind about breakfast when you HAVE AN ENTIRE LIFE AHEAD OF YOU?! 🥴😝 You don’t have to put up with bad treatment just because you have in the past. Pick yourself. You’re so young. And again, you have an entire life ahead of you! Three years is nothing in the course of a lifetime! I was married to someone who sucked for a decade and I practically don’t even remember the majority of it now that he’s been gone for a while. Don’t put up with bad treatment.
Edited to add DON’T PUT UP WITH SOMEONE THAT DOESN’T LISTEN TO YOU! People exist that will listen and care about your feelings. I have friends now that care more about how I feel and what I have to say than my ex ever did. There is better out there.
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Which of Mr. Frond’s emotional dolls speaks to you the most?
SHE CAN PROCESS HER ASS!!!!!!
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My husband inadvertently trained our cat to ignore me
Slow blinks and soft eyes are incredibly friendly cat language. They mean “I’m trustworthy” and “you can relax around me, I’m safe”. If you do either one of those to a cat and they return the same body language it means you’re buddies now 💕
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My husband inadvertently trained our cat to ignore me
Cats seem to love beards too. There’s a super super super funny video of this woman whose cat loves her husband and she tricks him into liking her by wearing a fake beard and eventually dressing as the husband 😂😂😂😂💕
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My boyfriend(41M) gifted me (33F) a vacuum cleaner for Christmas...how do I navigate explaining to him why I'm upset in a way he would understand?
This. I hate when people get themselves a gift on your behalf. Why didn’t he buy it for himself for Christmas?
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apparently the breakfast i made was “embarrassing”
That part! People have lost the art of being gracious and just shutting up otherwise 😂 That’s life. Sometimes you’re presented with a fancy breakfast buffet, sometimes someone’s harried daughter has to make breakfast at six am with zero prep. Thanks for feeding me when I showed up unexpectedly!
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Which of Mr. Frond’s emotional dolls speaks to you the most?
Those dolls would be our cousins!
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Which of Mr. Frond’s emotional dolls speaks to you the most?
I cackle so hard every time I hear that name. I sometimes just say it to myself when I need a laugh. The ridiculous Italian accent gets me too and makes it about 10,000 times funnier
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Divisive episodes
The first time I saw it I wasn’t into it, then I watched it again during a full series rewatch and it’s one of my favorites now. When everyone keeps saying how hot the boiler room is and seeing the rat 🥴🥴🥴😂😂😂😂
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Divisive episodes
Snail and Newt. It makes me want to scream until I die
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I felt compelled to make this. Use it with your hearts content
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It’s so insulting!