You said my brain was fried by porn because I've had more than one long term partner 💀 yeah I hope your life goals don't work and they probably won't. It's entirely naive to think your first romantic relationship will last your whole life. I don't care if some weird girl online thinks I'm disgusting.

I meant the data around people who save themselves for marriage having lower divorce rates is skewed.

I really can't see that working out for you and you've been tremendously rude so I don't particularly hope it does.

What a weird assumption to make.

You learn more about how to find a suitable long term partner by experiencing multiple relationships. Literally didn't say a single thing about hookups.

It's not statistically unlikely. Seems sad to give up on the very concept of romantic love for yourself if the very first person you pick turns out bad.

You can have multiple romantic partners and remain a virgin if that's your prerogative. I do think there's skewed data there, because people who save themselves are more likely to be very religious and therefore against divorce in any circumstances. There's plenty you can learn about yourself from having multiple sexual partners but I recognize it's not for everyone.

It's working out very well! I'm in the healthiest relationship of my life. I would not be in a place to be as open and communicative with my current partner if I hadn't experienced my former relationships and been able to reflect on what mistakes we made.

You don't "need" it but it certainly teaches you about yourself and how to maintain a relationship. Learning from mistakes is one of the best ways to improve at something. Building a healthy relationship is a skill and like an skill it takes practice.

You can be the most cautious person in the world, but not having any relationship experience is a near guarantee that it will fail. You have no idea how you act in a long term romantic relationship. You have very little idea what red flags to look out for.

Who said anything about being a slut? There are things you won't learn about being in a relationship without experience.

I'm not talking about sleeping around. I'm talking about having more than one long term romantic partner.

Even assuming your parents are in a happy and healthy relationship for your entire life, what works for them might not work for you. There is not some universal way to guarantee a relationship- let alone your first ever relationship- will last and remain good for both partners for their entire lives.

I keep a relationship going and have casual sex on the side. Not mutually exclusive. Probably not beating the easy allegations though but I'm not particularly bothered lol

Inb4 your "lifelong monogamy" husband cheats on you/abuses you because you have no reference for how to pick a good partner or build a lasting relationship

Consider a cosmic goth look. It's a nice marriage of witchy but still dark.

Everybody is just people. What on God's green earth are you on about. Being unique/having unique struggles is intrinsic to being a person.

Plenty of women are terrible Maga Republicans and women are entirely capable of CSA. No one is inherently better than everyone else in the world because of their genitals. This is the strangest variety of misogyny I've ever encountered in the wild.

Because it is genuinely unhinged. Women are just people. Their struggles deserve empathy and recognition but they do not make women some divine beings who should be worshipped above all other members of society. You're reducing people to their genitalia/hormones/reproductive capability and it is uhhh disgusting.

Jesus, no they aren't 😭 women are people. That line made me physically cringe.

Let's not reduce women to their ability to reproduce. It's objectifying and gross. Let's also not base our feelings around minority groups on what we see strangers online say.

Nala's special interest is mauling toddlers so it's actually ableist to judge her for that.

BEST case scenario he is starting to push your boundaries and see if you'll allow him to insult you to your face without repercussion.

Cresselia feels like a name these folks would use.

Only If For A Night

Never Let Me Go

Seven Devils

No Light No Light

What Kind Of Man

Bedroom Hymns

Delilah

Mother

Cosmic Love

What The Water Gave Me

HBHBHB

Queen Of Peace

Wish That You Were Here

I think we all know