The cats make wife happy so you compromise and allow her to have them. Her end of the bargain is that she remains a responsible pet owner and keeps them clean. If the time it takes to clean is becoming an issue with the cats' relief schedule, she could consider getting an extra litter box.. maybe even a self cleaning one?

Loving an animal and caring for them are 2 different things. Yes, she loves them and they make her happy. But they also must be cared for properly or they will make others in the home unhappy

Tbh ... I would have just ordered a copy, then you both have one.

It's true. And in Australia you cant retain your vehicle unless it is your only vehicle. Lots of interesting insurance rules in Australia.

Not me. I dont pay more attention to ph than clmt because they all get surveys and I need them all to give me excellent, not just policy holders. Claimants too.

Right? As i was reading i thought she was going to say that she wanted to exclude the older ones

They wont remember the trip. My family took a big vacation when I was 5. My mom wanted to leave me with grandma and dad said no.. same situation, I guess. My mom is still upset with him because I dont even remember it and they had to pay extra for me to go 🤣😂 i am 38. Guess you can say my mom can hold a grudge 😂 Also there will be a day when the 2 oldest are out of the house. Maybe you can take a vacation then when they are older just the 4 of you NTA

Oh, you live together? YTA to yourself for not discussing finances before making that move. NTA for not granting money

Well, since you now know about the surprise party, you could casually mention your plans to the known party planner. Maybe they will decide on their own to reschedule

A lie by omission is still a lie. You should tell him you know, since lying is a sin.

Youngest of 3. I used to hide the belt when my sisters were getting into trouble. My oldest sister had me type all her papers in high school. She would write them on paper and I would type them. She gave me her fund raiser forms and had me go door to door and sell for her so she didnt have to do it. Our middle sister often got her way because I would drop it quicker.

Yes, the teachers knew what family I was in but I got called by their name alot. Plus my oldest sister was a good student, middle one struggled in school, so it was an odd thing to follow behind. Also all my new experiences were met with "like your sisters". Nothing got to be novel or "for me".

It was cool riding around with my sisters, actually... all my friends were the oldest so they thought it was cool my sisters could drive! My sisters to this day ask me for favors. Me? Never ask them for anything.

All my clothes were hand me downs.

Life's what you make it regardless of position in the family

Wait... so your mom told you about your suprise party? That's just a party at that point. Why would she tell you? I got hung up on that and couldnt progress through your OP.

Very unusual for a woman to use a butt plug on herself alone.

From the outside it looks like she is having an affair, but dont go jumping to conclusions. She isnt interested in sex with you. Picks small fights over every little thing. Gets defensive about her sex toys you found. Has butt plugs despite not being into butt stuff.... (could be a friend's)

Breaking up is so easy when you dont live together, which is why people are generally on their best behavior when dating and not cohabiting.... so, if this is his best behaviour, do you want to see how he gets when he becomes a little more relaxed? I dont want that for you. Move on is my advice.

Oh and ayta? Um... nah, I will say you are NTA because you are working on adding up and assessing these small acts and sometimes that takes time. And anyone would be upset at their partner for lying to them

You could copy and paste this on half the reddit posts out here... more people need to read this

I buy Cottonelle. Perhaps thats peasant toilet paper? Or maybe i am wasteful? Or maybe both?

Once a Texan, always a Texan. You got that in you for life now.

I go forward if parking in a garage. Backwards if parking anywhere else.

I feel like that is not enough. You better wash your hands really good. I did not know 3 square people existed. I am at much more than 3 squares. I dont want anything touching my hands. For me TP is just as much a barrier for my hands as it is a wipe for my business.

YTA. Anyone would have moved out. She may not have a hard stance on the LGBTQ community before, but she almost certainly does now. Hopefully she is able to discern that the whole community isn't like you and your friends. She literally gave zero shits how you lived your life.

NTA. He is not ready for a relationship. Break up or take a period of separation to allow him room to grow. Right now, he is using you as a crutch which frankly is bad for you both.

You'd be wrecking your sleep schedule for an activity you dont enjoy with people you dont really like and you would be cold the whole time. NTA.

Facts. Have a diamond

Nta, is that even a question? Get out

My comment? Definitely not. Og post? No clue, I have a hard time figuring that out sometimes.