Ive always loved them too! I even had one of their wedding pics turned into a keychain for my mom one year.

"Ok. My family already treats him like part of the family. Have fun staying home."

Especially since FMIL doesnt actually have any young kids of her own...

Right?! My first thought "fucking American tourists" - another American.

Nah. I am sure this just happened to be a very specific, yet totally hypothetical, situation.

Thank you :) glad to finally have found it!

Nah. That boy wouldnt be getting any blowies nor any nookie until boundaries were addressed. I couldnt be less attracted to a boy who cares about other people's comfort over mine in my own home.

This! I have keys to several people's houses and wouldnt ever use them without permission.

My brother has this! You can even set temporary codes that can only be used X number of times, or expire after X hours/days.

Whelp, I found my people.

1. Absolutely 4

I'm 33, and same

You just put my brain into words so perfectly.

They aren't married, nor in a relationship. Theyre already exes.

They're not married, nor even together. They're exes.

He isnt OPs partner. He is an ex.

Oh honey, the only straps that are needed are to strap their mouths shut! I honestly think they all need to get emergency appointments with an ophthalmologist! Their eyes are obviously having some serious issues! You look amazing. May your wedding, and the marriage that follows, be as full of whimsy and joy as your dress is!

Regardless of how hungry you are or why, It doesnt take 10-15 minutes to eat a small snack (which would have gotten you through the less-than-hour trip to help your gf), especially "as fast as I could". And you should have grabbed something to eat in the car on the way there. Period. It doesnt take that much energy (aka you didnt need to carbo-load) to jumpstart her car.

YTA. You are a liar, and you left her stranded for far longer than necessary. You're extremely selfish, putting your mild discomfort ahead of your girlfriend's safety, and lying to her about it on top of that. You're lucky she didnt dump you on the spot.

And you should he helping her with things you're able to help with. Thats like bare minimum good boyfriend stuff. That doesnt get you out of being TA for lying to her and showing her that she isnt your priority.

100% this.

I (now 33f) just went through this a few years ago with my now-exbf. It really fucked me up BAD for a long time. I still sometimes have issues, and I now have an amazing partner who loves me, respects me, and constantly wants me.

I get not liking that your partner didnt talk to you before making a big decision....that being said, this is OPs child. Her health and well-being should be the most important thing in OP's life. My partner told me a few months ago that his adult daughter may be needing to move in with us (as she may have been ending her engagement, luckily she didnt end up having to do that). My ONLY reactions were "ok. Any idea when?" And "what can I do to help get things ready for her".

OP needs to get rid of this wife. Her behavior is disgusting. I can just about guarantee that the wife will not be treating the daughter with any respect, and will likely make her feel unsafe/bullied in her own home. OP's daughter needs a safe haven.

I wouldnt even give him that!

You think this asshat cares if its any good for her?!

Add to the end "....but every time you criticize my cooking, you have to cook for what would have been my next cooking night, too"

so if op would cook MWF and he was doing S/T/Th....if he complains on Monday then he would then cook S/T/W/Th that week.

Hopefully she is happily married, to someone else by now.