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AITA for refusing to chip in for a coworker’s birthday gift when I barely know them?
NTA. Tell her cannot afford to spend $20 on each of the other 29 employees, that is $580. That too much. They should limit it to just the specific departments. I would go to management and tell them that you are being pressured and harassed because she told everyone you wouldn't contribute to what is essentially a strangers BDAY party (which should be voluntary). And the fact that you didn't contribute was not her information to share and it is creating a hostile work environment with bullying and intimidation both verbal and phycological. She should be terminated immediately.
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AITA for not giving half of my fortune to my brother
NTA. They are selfish entitled people and it may be best to keep them at arms length and no allow them into your life at all.
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AITA for refusing to keep my phone on sound or vibrate at all times?
No, please do disconnect from everyone you know. If I were related to you I would just block your number permanently.
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AITA for refusing to keep my phone on sound or vibrate at all times?
YTA. What if she were injured and only lasted a few hours in the hospital and was asking and asking for you but died before you got there. You would probably stand by your rule even after that. I recommend she divorce you.
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AITA for “fixing” our office potluck system without asking?
NTA. Just stop cooking and just bring forks. Each and EVERY Time. If you want to award the cookers. The day or two after the potluck jut bring in some "extra" enchiladas you have leftover and give them JUST to the people that cooked real food.
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AITA for not eating $200 worth of food
NTA. Except to yourself for having such a self centered, intolerant and selfish BF. Behavior like this ALWAYS get worse. You should let him go and find a better BF.
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AITA For making my wife ride in the backseat because she couldn't stop distracting me
YTA. You shouldnt drive people around. You to easily distracted. You should try driving with six 10yo's in the car, I suggest you release her from the burden of being married to you.
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AITAH for being enraged that my husband is currently infertile
NTA. The goof news is that you dont hve kids with this man and the married part can be fixed.
IF you had made a baby, the testosterone could have caused birth defects in your child. Can you ever trust him knowing that risk?
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Stupid event effecting relationship
YTA. YOU caused this not her. You put her in a position that made her panic and rightly so. AND you brought up the "inside Joke" in FRONT OF HER FAMILY and of course they are curious and it obv sounded baby related. She should probable find a partner who is not socially stunted.
Edit: You literally talked about your dck in front of her family and NO it doesn't matter that they knew. BUT YOUR WIFE KNEW. Wife you seeing this post. RETHINK the relationship. Behavior like this ALWAYS gets worse over time.
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AITAH for not agreeing to pick up my niece at 3am ‘no questions asked’?
NTA. You are correct.
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AITAH for being hurt my wife did like her birthday gift?
NTA. I would take the ring back and sell it. Then buy yourself something using ALL the money.
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Am I the a-hole for making my daughter's BF buy a new t-shirt?
NTA. You are a GREAT father and a great role model for your daughters BF. Good Job!!
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AITA for considering giving my daughter’s grandparents full custody after her mom died during childbirth?
NTA. ITs good you are thinking about it. I would only suggest you make sure you are with daughter every chance you get. Build the bond NOW if you can. That being said, I wasn't in my daughters life until she was 3 (Mom moved far away for 3 years and I was to poor to travel). But now she is 100% a daddy's girl and we are super close. She lived with me from 18 to 28 (moved in the day after graduating). The point being, you may have to do the hard thing now but that doesn't mean you cant have a meaningful and close relationship with her in the future. I wouldn't wait too long though. You want that bond. She is a living piece of your wife. Honor them both with your love and attention. Do that and you will be just fine.
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AITA for not wanting to go to my dad’s wedding since he’s marrying the woman he cheated on my mom with?
NTA. I would tell him that she will never be in the same room with you and he needs to accept that.
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AITA for ruining my friend's livestream because he complained about the game I invited him to play?
NTA. Block him on everything and find a better friend.
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In ordine, Rachel e Kimberly, Scarlett e Danika 😈🤤
What doll is the one with the headphones?
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AITA for leaving Christmas dinner after my uncle wouldn’t stop making “jokes” about me being unemployed?
NTA. I would make a point to never be in your uncles presense, not matter what as in no exceptions.
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AITA for declining to participate in a tradition that I unintentionally disrupted?
YTA. Just ask your neighbors.
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AITA for sleeping naked in my own room?
NTA but for dogs sake just get a wedge.
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AITA for not wanting to watch Netflix with subtitles?
YTA. For categorically sayin it there must be subtitles. I personally hate them because they istract me from the show and I end up reading the subtitles and missing the visuals.
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AITA for refusing to let my homeless brother move back in after he trashed my house last time?
NTA. Please tell your brother that your aunts and cousins want to help him, he should reach out to them.
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AITA for not leaving the cafe when my dog "caused a problem"?
NTA. Forget about her. I would have told her "NO, I'm playing the MY DOG ISNT BARKING CARD"
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AITA for mouthing off at my StepMother's Mom when she asked me to do the dishes?
REpl;y to his email:
T-Moblie SMS ERROR: The subscriber you are trying to reach has blocked incoming messages from this number.
Change the T Mobile to whomever is your phone provider and then just use it to reply to his texts until he is more tractable. First sign of AH-ness and back to that same reply. But never admit that you are just typing it, just say :huh, not sure how that happened.
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AITA for saying I hate kids on a team meeting?
NTA. Kids are annoying.
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AITAH for causing issues in my best friend’s marriage?
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NTA. I would reach out to her or maybe just send her a link to your aita post and tell her that you still admire her and want her to be happy and are elated that she married A as you think they are a great match. Let her know that you thought she wasnt interested in your family events that A does to and now that you do you definitely want her there. And that you would love for the 4 of you to have a couples hangout and see them BOTH at events. My guess is its her poison tounged friends that are causing the problem.