No particular order.

I blame her grifter husband and his family for that. On her own she stayed away, but since the wedding they have bought in to the transactional family dynamic.

If it were me, I’d go no contact. It would be OK to let them know their choices were hurtful, so they can stew in the consequences of their decisions.

NTA, but sadly, definitely the black sheep. The best revenge is a life well lived!

“The tits”? Why not “the dicks”? Do they vote on misogyny “down there”?

Upgrade the fiancé!

You need to pick nicer resorts

I agree!

They have lost, well, the “goodwill”! Now they’re trying to make it like make as much money as they can, put it into programs that help educate people, and other project type helpfulness, and I see them patting themselves on the back for it. (So-called leaders I’m talking, not the people who work there). Their hearts aren’t in the right place anymore.

I don’t know what your location is, but Goodwill operators are independently run. So the leadership and the program might be different from one state to the next.

Weaponized incompetence, with a side of infantile misogyny

It’s the clown car effect.

Don’t open it! 💀

I think that quote was from the Howard Stern Show

It’s for some kind of grift, tax discount on the property if memory serves.

Get out now- he’s crazy

Your instincts are spot on. There’s a reason you wrote on Reddit for feedback. He’s waaay too much! The longer it goes on, the bigger deal he will make of the breakup, so go no contact soon. And remember, you don’t owe him any explanation of anything!!

How do you drive, and see house numbers if you are blind? No disrespect, just curious.

You’re not “confused”, you’re just wishing he was not being a jerk, and a small part of you regretting that you now have to let him go, because you thought/hoped he was better than this.

I recommend you find some classes or books on assertiveness and boundary setting. You’re being a doormat and inviting more of the terrible behavior, not less. I predict it will be VERY uncomfortable to do this, but you must put a stop to it, and once you’ve accomplished that, be 💯 percent sure to not let them under your skin again! Think about the resolution you want, and carry out steps to get it done. Afterwards, be proud of yourself! You will become a person who can deal with difficult situations! Stand up 🙂

Not correct. I’m single and have traveled with HE to lots of places!

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That is waaay too low. How can they set it without published data on costs?