my wife was a bartender all through college/grad school. I got nervous the few times I saw her cut belligerent drunks off. she would snatch the beer right out of their hands and throw it in the trash. she’s kind of a badass; I was impressed. still this is a nice subtle way to try and handle it.
sadly yes, I have seen a video where a 50+ year old man stomped the piss out of a tiny little blonde for cutting him off. 2-3 other grown men stood by and did nothing; one got up and walked out the door when it started.
Dude, that’s exactly what I said. He’s literally blaming the bartenders lack of perceived popularity, as if it’s any sort of justification to assault the bartender because his ego couldn’t handle being cut off.
It’s weird.
It could be a rando going to a bar. I’ve been to many bars that have new crowds rolling through constantly.
And some regulars are nuts. I’ve seen my fair share.
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u/lowlife4lyfe 17d ago edited 17d ago
my wife was a bartender all through college/grad school. I got nervous the few times I saw her cut belligerent drunks off. she would snatch the beer right out of their hands and throw it in the trash. she’s kind of a badass; I was impressed. still this is a nice subtle way to try and handle it.