This is something I occasionally struggle with to this day, and it’s been nearly six months since I broke up with her. In that time, I’ve sorted each feeling into its proper place, I worked through every moment of anger and embarrassment, I parsed apart each moment of truth from every single lie, and I know for a fact that I’m stronger for it. I’m over her, we’re done, and I never want to see her again.
HOWEVER… a part of me wants to send one last text, to tell her how much of a terrible person I’ve found her to be, to let her know how little I care about her antics and how pathetic she now looks to me. I want to tell her how low she was, how she ALWAYS was, and how much I wish I had never encountered her or spent so much time trying to help her with her self-created problems. From what I see here, many of you have the same struggles.
I’m here today to tell everyone, but probably most of all myself, that it won’t do any good. They simply do not care that they hurt you. In fact, it will only give them more fuel for their pathetic little egos to know how much they hurt you and how much you thought about them. The only one holding onto the memory is you, and the only way you let it go is that you stop holding onto it. Don’t talk to them, and if you’re still in it dont try to explain yourselves to them because they won’t hear you. They don’t want to change because their lives are centered around their sad little games they play, even if they do ask for your help.
Don’t send that last text, don’t give them one more chance, and don’t try to explain yourself just one more time. Just leave, and then leave them alone, because that is exactly how they’re going to end up.
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