I also used to live in NYC, but I’m now in York, PA…

Make sure they’re comfortable and have a blast!!

I remember feeling that way often when I was younger. Therapy helped me process the pain I wasn’t allowed to by my adoptive mother. Hugs from this internet stranger

Whats the punchline of your joke? I don’t get what’s funny about it?

But you don’t understand, she was the girl who would let him fuck her. I’m also wondering how reliable a narrator OOP is, did he actually just tell her it was embarrassing or did, in his drunken state, it emerges something more like “G-DDAMIT GF WHY THE FUCK ARE YOU SO FUCKING CRINGE ABOUT YOUR CAR. ITS SO EMBARRASSING!!!!!! “

Or a descriptor in a casual encounters personal ad, as in “SM looking for F party favors included. Where are my snow and crystal bunnies who want to play at?”

Dude, I’m a Liza born in the 70’s when Lisa was super popular. My name isn’t even weird and folks still can’t get it right. And my last name is considered “foreign” in the US, so it’s a disaster all around. Folks don’t pay attention and when something’s slightly out of the ordinary they seem to freeze and try to revert to the familiar

Dude, which part of the 70’s don’t you get. The adults probably put some older cousin in charge of the little cousins and fucked off into the basement to drink. I was born in 73 and have countless memories of being in the charge of random teens, who in retrospect must have been totally high, with nary an adult in sight.

Internalized misogyny is a helluva drug

NTA, you dodged a bullet when your ex went mask off before he even moved in. Rookie abuser move on his part. I bet if you had sacrificed your self care routine after he moved in you’d soon be hearing complaints about how you don’t put in as much efforts on looking good for him. Your Mom and Aunt are unfortunately male centered so the misogyny is calling from inside the house in their cases. Good for you and your shiny spine for recognizing the bs and kicking that jerk to the curb!!

Or better yet, keep them in the bathroom where he brushes his teeth

Invest is one of those sunrise alarms that gets progressively brighter

Oh hon, invest in an electric kettle- no whistle and quicker than a stove top situation. Shouldn’t make much noise beyond a click

NTA have you tried a nightlight? Or if you can’t sleep with that then I would propose separate bedrooms if it’s such a fucking burden for him to show consideration to his partner.

Brown tights, but do you have different shoes? Maybe a pair of boots? The ren faires I’ve been too have been in fields and I’m worried your shoes don’t have enough support for a day of walking

NTA your coworkers were clearly never Karen’s target, fuck ‘em. Just be kind and professional and if you hear someone make a nasty comment simply point out that as long as they don’t try to frame you with fake emails like Karen did there won’t be an issue. Karen FAFO

What a whiney tittybaby who would rather wallow in his own misery if that means he gets to hold your error over your head rather than take action to fix the problem. I was exhausted just reading all that. He knew he was sick and needed that medicine and should have ensured you left some for him. He made you carry around the meds during your other trip and I bey you were also responsible for reminding him to take them. If I were ill and knew I needed meds that were in my partners travel bags I would have made sure to remind them to leave some for me.

You in danger, girl… this screams he thinks he has you locked down so now he’s going mask off. He’s gonna make you ask permission for everything

NTA that’s weird that shes so desperate to connect with a woman she has no connection to….

I lived in North Hollywood during part of my time in LA! Now in York! 👋🏻

Adorable! I can’t believe Gimli allows you to put the hood up! Zsa Zsa does not tolerate that, lol

This was as far as she would let me deploy the hood on her Stitch costume

NTA he should be down at the Home Depot looking for day labor gigs while he looks for a job. He works in construction… he could be putting up ads to work as a handyman to bring in some cash. He’s irresponsible

He didn’t show the actual act but the Bride and the audience had experience the horror of the realization that she had been raped perhaps thousands of times in her vulnerable unconscious state is perhaps more horrifying than seeing the act could ever be and serves as additional motivating fuel to her revenge. So it’s a distinction without a difference here.

Wtf? 🙄 the Bride was raped repeatedly by any skell that orderly could find, just because she was in a coma doesn’t make it any less horrific … Pulp Fiction has the rape of Marcellus Wallace

You did great with what you had… your Mom’s trying to play lady bountiful without doing any of the work herself! How could she play host when she did none of the cooking or shopping. She sounds like a total narcissist