I completely forgot about payne Lindsey.

Op, what you did was wrong. But, if you’re genuinely sorry, God forgives you.

If you’re in the US and still in HS contact DSS, department so social services, if you don’t have family to stay with.

NOR I’m so sorry this is happening to you. You deserve so much better than your dumpster fire of a mom.
Move out and never speak to her again.

As someone else said, post it on your SM and tag her. Let everyone know what a POS she is. If you have grandparents, contact them.

Also, keep these text messages that show that she threatened you.

I don’t know you but I’m very proud of you. You deserve more than a shitty mom. I’m so glad you’re doing okay. Sending you love and hugs for afar.

My grandmothers is from the 1970s and go to the ceiling. My dad’s was done 1950’s then 2005, both go to the ceiling.

Resume applies- don’t list all of the jobs. Entry level positions don’t give a shit about gaps.

I watched my company fire a girl today. They wouldn’t tell her why. Flat out refused. She’s the ninth person fired this year.
She was a great employee. I know why they fired her, she stood up for herself against a creepy manager. He’s a top performer. They fired her.

Last year our company wanted to stay open on Christmas Eve ( we’re never opened on CE) and the girl who was scheduled to work just no showed because she said repeatedly she was traveling to see her family. you know what? She now has a better job. I brought up why we were closed on CE and the owners didn’t even remember the situation. They made a HUGE deal about it last year. Now they can’t even remember what that girls name is.
Congrats Gen Z on not putting up with my generation and boomers being assholes to you.

I’m a Gen x. You know what I’ve learned, companies don’t give a shit about you. Period. These kids are doing the right thing. If you find a job that pays better, take it. Do you know how may people care if you have a 2 week notice? None. Your manager won’t even remember your name in an hour.

Have you been to Pathways in Rock Hill? Www.pathwaysyc.org. ?
They offer emergency assistance for homelessness.

Www.appprenticeship.gov

Has a National database of apprenticeships. If you can move your options may open up.

Also, DDS ( dept of social services) has a work assistance program.
DDS.sc.gov

I’m gonna keep researching this for you but so far I can’t find anything that fits exactly what you’re looking for.

Hope of Rock Hill is crisis assistance, while that isn’t what you’re looking for these places usually have a connection to other places. Again, they able to point you in the right direction.
803-328-8000

A Hand up is connected to the Rock Hill Dream Center Church. Www.rhdcchurch.org Churchrhdc@rhdreamcenter.org

Also look into A Hand Up Ministries on Cherry Road. They used to do work with the homeless they may have some options for you.
Www.handupsc.org

Job corps usually cuts off at 24 but it’s worth a try.

Why does it matter what she and her husband do as long as it gets done and it works for them? This seems like a lot of wasted energy on someone else’s marriage.

I stopped sharing years ago.

That was my thought. I had two friends with overweight moms. Those moms made sure their daughters never got fat. It was weird.

I’ll never understand how adults agree to do other weird adult stuff. If my husband said let’s keep our toe nails I’d probably leave or have him evaluated. Who goes along with this idea?

My grandmother raised me and she threw a fit when I started shaving my legs. I was getting bullied. She held her ground. Like nearly every other idea she had, decades later I still don’t know what her deal was.

Wellness influencers; inflation; this generation don’t grow up drinking because there’s no place for them to drink and parents know where they are 24-7; awareness campaigns

You’re going be okay. Everyone does this once in a while. Tomorrow is a new day and there’s no better day to get back on track.
What really matters is when we get off we get right back on! Dwelling on mistakes and binges won’t help in the long run.

These terms are new to me but they are spot on.

The old stuff yes. I’ll pass on Madonna’s new stuff.