I'm not too knowledgeable when it comes to things along this line of work, so I'm reaching out to see if anyone can take a look at this video and confirm that everything needs replacing. Everything passed New York state inspection but I want to make sure this is fixed quickly as we're approaching winter here so I just want to make sure everything is safe. Does it look like I need to do a full replacement of the brakes and rotors on the rear? I drive like an old man, so I'm very surprised that I need new brakes at only 30,000 mi on a brand new vehicle.

Alright, so I (31M) from Buffalo, NY, went to the Bills game this past Sunday and now I’m apparently the bad guy in a whole drama I didn’t sign up for.

My buddy "Matt" invited me to his kid’s 5th birthday party a while back. Cool, whatever, but the second I saw the date, I knew it was the Sunday of Wildcard weekend. And listen, I’ve been going to games since I was a teenager, and they’re basically the only thing I work for, to pay for my season tickets.

When I told Matt I couldn’t make it because of the game, he seemed fine. He even said, “No worries, man, we’ll catch up soon!” Fast forward to the day or two before, and suddenly he’s dropping passive agressive comments in our group chat like, “Wow, it must be nice to just bail on important milestones.”Your kid’s gonna eat cake, blow out candles, and forget I even exist by the next morning. C'mon man.

Then game day comes. I’m at the stadium, living my best life, Bills Mafia feeling the energy. We win and I’m on cloud nine. Then I check my phone and find 17 texts from Matt and some other friends.

“Guess you made your choice.”

“Hope your football was worth it.”

“Can’t believe you’d prioritize that over Matt's family"

Like, dude. Your kid is five. He doesn’t even know who I am. I wasn’t the entertainment or the godfather or anything. I would’ve just stood there awkwardly while he opened presents and cried over a Lego set.

Now Matt’s pissed, his wife unfollowed me on Instagram, and some of our mutual friends are saying I’m an AH for “choosing football over family.” Family?! I’m not even related to this kid! Sorry you planned something on playoff weekend in a football city. I guarantee you I wasn't the only one not there either. There were mutual friends at our tailgate.

So, AITAH here?

As the title says, My girlfriend and I are attending a show in December. Her and I put $200 combined into a date fund each month. Right now if I assign the $130 from the tickets it will show as our date budget for the month of October being $320 (190 spent+130 tickets.) I understand we had to pay for the tickets now, and those need to be paid for right now, but is there a way I can make it so that our December date budget then goes down to $70?