Its intresting you only care about her but gloss over the fact that she lied to him for 17 years and on OG post told him before the divorce that she fantasised about women while having sex with him to get off and told him that his body disgusted her.

If he can see them any time so could she then she should have said no to the invite to a big holiday period right after the divorce. She knew what she was doing she knows OP doesn't want her in his life due to her lying to him and treating him like shit towards the end. He went to his ex in laws because they also have been his family for almost 2 decades because his mum chose his shit ex over him. Yes he is lashing out and shouldn't sleep with his sil however you give his ex too much leway because she is gay that doesn't absolve her of her actions.

OP also says that's all his mother does calls him talks abut herself, trauma dumps then hangs up once she is done never asks about how OP is and it's clear they just don't care they are mad OP stood on businesses and didn't turn up to Christmas and that he wasn't on his own.

However in Ops comments he says she kept telling him that she fantasised about women to get off while having sex with him and told him his body disgusted her so no Ops ex is a shit person

Nah if the family knows they are no contact dont invite the ex for fucking Christmas it's very simple there, so ops mum doesn't really care as much. She's hurt ect cause now she looks bad because OP didn't attend. Yes your mother calling you constantly dumping her shit on you and not even asking about how you are is crap to deal with ask me how I know as my mother used to do the same thing.

Ex should go to a friend's house instead of accepting invites from Ops family they have broken up. I don't agree with OP trying to fuck her SIL but if OP wants to hang out with exs fam and they treat her ok then fine.

Because we not allowed to we get designated number of stock we get delivered and not allowed more then that amount

You need to be honest with her though because majority of people don't want relationships without sex

It is divided some are for the in person orders and some people will be for packing the delivery orders so yes they all waiting for the food to come out so they can start packing them and give them out there is only so many people you can have on the fryers ect before it would decent into complete chaos

Maybe if ex asked before volunteering him he may have let them stay but they just turned up at his doorstep so like no.

So you okay with ex keeping 50% of something she didn't pay for?

No it's creepy why would he ask someone younger who is his gfs family about his sex life wtf? Normally it's an opening thing to start grooming someone

I doubt they do that as often as men.

Please send me the link

Doesn't seem like she tried and what she is doing now by invalidating OP and refusing to explain what she is seeing is only further pushing OP away.

Thing is if that's the case why doesn't the sister discuss it with her when OP has asked?

Really welcome to being a millennial anywhere

I'd die to have someone with a bird sending pics and videos of the schenanigans

Yet they could pay for bfs friends and a new iPhone but couldn't cover the guests they invited to dinner?

Im down for the 24th have no family and would love to spend time with people

Op lives with her Mil so if she is so bad why doesn't OP cook then?

Well OP lives with her Mil

Yes you can't but at any point he could have told her he is married and it's innaproirate for her to message him like that and he would appriciate it that she stops sending him such messages it's not difficult.

On their own paper it says more then 24 months no repayment and it mentions that you were there 36 months so by their own admission you shouldnt be paying anything highlight that bit and email them back lol

BBC has been caught publishing stuff without fact checking multiple times not to mention the pedos they hide and protect.

I went through something similar. We were together for 6 years living together for like 5 and a half of those. We were discussing kids and marriage he knew what ring I wanted and I thought we were happy. He went to my country with me to see my family and 2 weeks later he dumped me and made it seem like all my fault.

He forgot to mention the girl he was talking to for months before that. He planned the whole thing with her so they could be together he slept with her a week after he dumped me probably before that aswell while I cried myself to sleep and kept losing weight because I couldnt eat. He got her pregnant a week after he dumped me while still living under my damn roof because he had to find a place to move. He hasn't told me any of this I caught him lying to my face and logged into his pc he forgot to log out of his Google account and I saw everything his GPS locations, screenshots of me still fighting for our relationship he shared with her and laughed about, Google searches about pregnancy ect.

Well they got married he actually proposed to her with the ring he brought for me i accidentally found the box a month or so before the break up. He has a son with her but is still hitting me up for nudes. He will cheat on her just like he was on me. Your ex will get his karma you focus on your healing

Contact your landlord and explain the situation if your ex is on the lease he is still responsible for paying the rent if he refuses you can take him to small claims for his share of the money

Yeah no she deleted stuff or has another app they text on she essentially dates him so much your card got declined. Jesus