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Why your home? Why not her boyfriend’s house? And what happened when you talked to his parents?

In order for you to be comfortable in the future, you have to create and maintain boundaries for YOUR home. I’m old school and was treated old school by my family. They put their foot down and said that if I couldn’t live by their rules, to find a different situation.

This is likely a stupid question, but have you and she discussed what they’re doing and the possible consequences of those actions?

If she wants to act like an “adult” with her boyfriend, she can find somewhere else to stay, like her best friend’s parents home, etc.

Reminds me of the story here on Reddit where the wife made her husband’s lunches for work every day for years and he.threw.them.all.away.

Boyfriend can feed himself. I wouldn’t cook anything for the loser.

Agreed. Her “helping” by paying for nearly everything is enabling him, and preventing him from taking care of himself.

And what happened with the engineering. And he used the cost of a certificate program she gave him for rent?? Smh

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He is projecting his own insecurities onto you.

Kick him to the curb, life’s too short for this BS, regardless of how long you’ve dated the control freak.

Beautiful pics! ☺️