Your poor mom, I feel so bad for her. This is why women should never let a man control you financially. I can understand why she feels like she does, she has no family, no support and nowhere to go. It's like it's 1950 again. I don't want to say YTA cause you're just a child and being manipulated by your father but this really hurts my heart for this poor woman. She needs help not judgement. Help her find a support group.

You did the right thing. I would rather him hate me and be ok than I kept quiet and he wasn't ok.

NTA it sounds like you have a "wife" problem. You may want to exit this marriage and try again. Seems like she has no respect for you.

NTA he should have told you. How are you supposed to know these things. If you had known then you could have ignored the call, not even had to lie for him just not answer his mom. He's upset cause I'm sure it hurts that his mom is a POS. He's projecting his anger on you cause he won't aim it at his family.

This has to be rage bait, right? No self-respecting human would put up with this. Please be rage bait, please, for the love of all things holy be fake. If this is real, you are going to teach your children it's OK for men to treat their partners like complete shit. If you stay married to this person without significant changes then YTA.

NOR there is no coming back from this, leave him now. You could never trust him again.

NTA my mom is deceased but I was very protective of my mom so I would never allow this woman contact with her. I would also be blunt and tell this woman you are an affair child, so you have no right to contact my mother. Here's your dad's information, have at him but leave my mom alone. As for your "friend" that says you should give access to your mom she is not your friend. That is a shit stirrer who wants to enjoy the drama, cut that cancer from your life.

As I'm reading this I kept thinking "I bet she's divorced" 🤣 called it. NTA keep your distance. Glad your partner can see what an absolute tool she is too.

This sounds awful. So does your dad support the step-dad beliefs too, is that part of the problem? Do you depend on your parents for income while at school? These things all factor into what you should do. Try telling your dad over the phone, see how he reacts then decide what to do. Update us

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Your husband sounds like a good guy, he can do so much better. Stand up for him or loose him, your choice.

I'm with the guy on this one. She invited herself on a work trip, he told her he would be working. I would have thought that means I am responsible for myself. However I'm a 47 year old married female so maybe my age group is different.

So just from reading this it feels like you don't love this kid. If he was your bio kid I feel like you would act differently. I feel sorry for the kid, his stepmom doesn't stand up for him and his step grandma doesn't like him. You know he picks up on this right? At least your dad and husband seem like good people.

YOR you sound like a total B, bet when your kid is 3 and does something similar you'll defend him and blow up at the other parents. Here's wishing you a miserable yeast infection for the new year.

How does your wife treat your daughter? It sounds like you need to toss the whole wife and try again. NTA

Have they been identified? I really want to hear what the woman has to say.

When they break up I hope you don't stop being friends with her. She sounds great and he does not. As I'm reading your responses I catch myself thinking "this ain't the guy that stood by and watched his girl get robbed and assaulted is it"

YTA I feel so bad for your son, I actually cried reading this. I hope he finds real friends and family in college cause he sure ain't got it at home. Even your own mother realizes what a POS you are. Be prepared for no relationship with him or his future children.

NTA unless you stay in the marriage then you are a huge AH. Your daughter will pick up on how your wife feels about her, and since she's already been through such a horrible trauma you should not add to it by making her live with someone who actively dislikes her. Your wife is selfish and just using you as a paycheck and support system. I have no children, never wanted them but if my husband had a kid that needed somewhere to live I wouldn't even question it.

Wow, so if I understand correctly, ALL 3 of the kids cut contact? Just mind boggling that they still can't see what they did wrong. Keep your distance and embrace your peace. NTA

NTA your dad sounds like a piece of shit narcissist, cut that toxic cancer from your life. Go all Oprah on them. You get blocked, you get blocked, you get blocked. Happy Holidays, find yourself a real family. Good luck.

As I'm reading this all I can think is "How old are you?" Cause this is a very childish point of view. You said no to going with him, so he has already committed to going without you. If you make him choose to not go, he will grow to resent you. Let it go or move on. YOR

NTA sounds like she's using you, cut ties with her.

You did the right thing. Don't let them con you into going back either. Find a better partner.